The Militarization of Sex

The story of Hezbollah's halal hookups.

BY HANIN GHADDAR | NOVEMBER 25, 2009

Mohammad, a 40-year old Lebanese Shiite who lives in Hezbollah's stronghold in Beirut's southern suburbs, was holding forth on the virtues of resistance, loyalty, and sex. "You could create the most loyal army by providing political power, social services and fulfilling the desires of your men -- namely, sexual ones," he declared.

"And Hezbollah has been very successful in this regard," Mohammad continued. It is hard to disagree. Hezbollah liberated South Lebanon from Israeli occupation, expanded the Shiite community's political power within the country, and has provided social services, such as health care and education, to its constituency since the 1980s. Today, it is also working to fulfill the sexual needs of its supporters, though a practice known as mutaa marriage.

Mutaa is a form of "temporary marriage" only acceptable within Shiite communities, one that allows couples to have religiously sanctioned sex for a limited period of time, without any commitments, and without the obligatory involvement of religious figures. In conservative Muslim societies known for their strict sense of propriety, mutaa offers an escape clause. The contract is very simple. The woman says: "I marry myself to you for [a specific period of time] and for [a specified dowry]" and the man says: "I accept." The period can range between one hour and a year, and is subject to renewal. A Muslim woman can only marry a Muslim man, but a Muslim man can temporarily marry a Muslim, Christian, or Jewish woman, as long as she is a divorcée or a widow. However, those interviewed for this article confirmed that Hezbollah-the "Party of God"-has allowed the practice to spread to virgins or girls who have never married before, as long as the permission of her guardian (father or paternal grandfather) is obtained.

Temporary marriage has long been practiced by Shiites around the world. However, it has recently become more commonplace in Lebanon, notably within Hezbollah strongholds in Beirut's southern suburbs and in southern Lebanon after the 2006 war with Israel,

Hezbollah's recent encouragement of this phenomenon highlights the compromises it had been required to make in order to remain the preeminent force among its domestic Shiite constituency.  As the party gained strength due to its effectiveness in fighting Israel, it was forced to cope with the reality that many Lebanese Shiites did not share the Iranian-inspired religious beliefs of Hezbollah's leaders. They came to dominate a community that was shaped by the secular leftist trends of the 1970s and 1980s, and the cosmopolitan culture embodied by Beirut. Today, Lebanese Shiites are exposed to pop icons such as sexpot singer Haifa Wehbe, countless Western advertisements and programs, and technological innovations such as online dating. Allowing these Shia to balance their sexual desires with their support for the "Resistance" against the "Zionist entity" is a vital ingredient to Hezbollah's staying power.

According to Shiite writer and activist Lokman Slim, Hezbollah party members are not allowed to practice temporary marriage for security reasons, unless assigned by the party to do so. "We should make a clear distinction between Hezbollah as an organization and Hezbollah as it runs the community's culture and social affairs," Slim said.

But for everyone else, Hezbollah apparently decided to expand its support for this practice after the 2006 war, to maintain its support base and keep the Shiites in Lebanon under its control. "After the 2006 war, Iranian money came to Lebanon in abundance, and money opened the door to sexual luxury that could not be ignored or controlled," noted Slim. "Therefore, Hezbollah decided it is easier to allow sex under certain religious titles in order to keep the control over the community."

The havoc wreaked by the 2006 war and a more difficult domestic political situation also encouraged Hezbollah to shift its position in order to consolidate support. Sheikh Mohammad Ali Hajj, imam of the Imam Ali Mosque in the Sad Bouchrieh district of Beirut, remarked that after 2006, Hezbollah had to strengthen its support among its communities. "They created a military group, The Resistance Saraya, which took in anyone ready to join, religiously and ideologically committed or not," he said. "They had to contain the Shiite community around it with all its aspects, the good and the bad, and found measures to control it, including the temporary marriage," he added.

Hezbollah is in charge of enforcing resolution in the event unpleasant scenarios arise, such as pregnancy or disagreements between couples. "It is only a matter of more control rather than being tolerant," Slim explained.

MAHMUD HAMS/AFP/Getty Images

 SUBJECTS: MIDDLE EAST
 

Hanin Ghaddar is a Lebanese journalist based in Beirut.

CAPTAIN NOVAL

8:42 AM ET

November 26, 2009

Another name for the oldest profession

So the Hezbollah run brothels and staff them with prostitutes? And this is surprising just how?

There is nothing new under the sun.

 

MGHULOUM

1:38 PM ET

November 26, 2009

This article sounds like

This article sounds like something that would be published in the Saudi dailies like Asharq Alawsat or Alarabiya website. Actually the Muta'a is frowned upon by most senior Shi'a clerics, but is still widely practiced among certain classes and allowed by lower-level clerics (maybe for a fee?).
On the Sunni side, there are more even variations of the same theme, but they are largely creations of the Wahhabi society and not common among Sunnis outside Saudi Arabia and some Persian Gulf states: the part-time marriages (mesayyar or travel, strictly for sex with no other obligation) and there are the weekend marriages. And there are the summer vacation marriages. There are also the under-age marriages whereby elderly Saudi men marry 13 or 14 year old poor girls in places like Egypt. Hoping that what happens in Cairo stays in Cairo after summer.
Cheers

 

HAROLD HOLLINGSWORTH

1:35 PM ET

November 26, 2009

conflict of interest

Hanin Ghaddar is an employee of NOW Lebanon, a propaganda arm of Lebanon's dominant March 14 political coalition. If it weren't bad enough that her article is full of quotations from caricatures like "Mohammad" and "Hassan" --- who, regardless of whether they are real, are just some dudes who are unaffiliated with Hezbollah and happened to have heard about something second-hand --- FP adds insult to injury by not informing the reader of Ghaddar's affiliation with NOW Lebanon. Would FP print an article in which a Republican operative criticized Democrats without informing the reader that the writer was a Republican?

 

BRUSSELSGUY

6:08 PM ET

November 26, 2009

NO Conflict of interest !

There is no conflict of interest whatsoever !!!
Apparently this article annoys some PRO-hezbollah-ahmedinajad supporters, which is not that shocking as it exposes one of many hidden faces of this ''radical'' movement, not only from a religious point of view, but from a political and a social one.
i am not here to defend the writer (even though i know her personally), but i know what she talking about ! i am a shiite myself (now living in europe), and used to live in these areas that haniin is talking about, and i know that these practices are widely spread and encouraged by High-profile hizbollah leaders, who are also aware of deviations like prostitutions, drug use, etc...
Thank you hanin for daring, and i am so sorry for people who want to deny what is so obvious for god knows why !

 

WITHDRAWINGINDISGUST

1:36 AM ET

November 30, 2009

You're a Shiite?

Perhaps you can enlighten me - on what basis do Shi'as and Sunnis decide who is right regarding
Muhammad's cousin Ali? Because it's incredible to me that a centuries-old disagreement can be the basis for your people slaughtering each other. From my perspective, it would seem your people have completely missed the point of believing in Allah at all.

Or is there something I'm missing?

I try to keep an open mind, but c'mon. Admit it - just like everywhere else, religion is just so much crap used to justify everything from treating your women like cattle or whores to murder.
It's about control, greed and lust, and it's intellectually dishonest.

 

SENSIBLE

10:50 PM ET

December 2, 2009

Learn to argue

This here is called an argumentum ad hominem. For future reference, please direct you criticism at an author's content and not his character.

 

HANIBAL

3:46 PM ET

November 26, 2009

This is not a surprising, as

This is not a surprising, as sex and islam have always been so closely interwind. Starting with the profit himself who was married to 13 women at the same time includind one as young as 9 yrs of age. Furthermore,the history of islamic civlisation demonstrates very clearly the casual nature of sex in the islamic religion: a man can have 4 wives at any one time AND can is also allowed to have sex with other women salves ( that can be bought from thee slave maket, so called " malakat yamin " A women "slave ' can thus have sex with dozens of pious rligious men in one lifetime,, and all of this is still not contradicting with islamic teaching as it has been so decreed in the koran.
For more review islamic history

 

NAZIA

10:22 AM ET

November 27, 2009

Ignorance should be bliss not destructive

Hanibal
You are looking quite ignorant of Islam, Arabic culture and real logic of marriages of Holy prophet.If ordinary Muslims misuse the actual concept of polygamy, muttah, remarriages then don't judge prophecy of Prophets as representations of wrong notion.
Sorry to say Sex is done in casual way in western and non Islamic culture but any where in islamic society formal arrangement is arranged in the name of legal marriage procedures or sometimes in form of short contract marriages in Islam.Adultery, sex without marriage, rape are serious crimes in Islam.Oh surely Muslims specially rich and influential groups misused and still misusing some of Islamic laws in their favor.Does this not imply to all rich and influential human in all over the world?.
Are you unaware of slave market in US and EU countries which are listed as top rated civilized countries.Last month I had visited the Florence street at the main strip of LAS VAGAS .Here the lady and gents pimps are openly distributing photos of young and nude prostitutes to all sexes without seeing that kids, minor and modest people are also visiting this tourist city of US.
If US president proved to have sex with his secretary at his official desk along with perjury charges then it is considered normal or funny in an un Islamic culture but you people direct your mockery attitude toward muslims if found Muttah as an legal formality of having sex in war areas.
As a Muslim woman I am not in favor of muttah like marriage but the way you linked it with whole Islamic culture is quite irrelevant and highly disgusting .
you are really in need of reviewing real and unbiased Islamic history.

 

WITHDRAWINGINDISGUST

1:25 AM ET

November 30, 2009

Profit?

Try "prophet"

 

SCOTTGOOSE

1:10 AM ET

November 27, 2009

Whoa whoa whoa

Hezbollah did NOT force Israel to withdrawal from Lebanon, hence the retention of Sheaba Farms. Total conflict of interest and bias abound. Hezbollah are terrorists who kill innocent noncombatants just because they are Israeli, regardless of how many turkeys they hand out (just kidding, regardless of the amount of social services provided to community). Just because they won seats in an election does not nullify their inherently odious nature and proclivity for terror attacks.

 

SCOTTGOOSE

1:10 AM ET

November 27, 2009

Whoa whoa whoa

Hezbollah did NOT force Israel to withdrawal from Lebanon, hence the retention of Sheaba Farms. Total conflict of interest and bias abound. Hezbollah are terrorists who kill innocent noncombatants just because they are Israeli, regardless of how many turkeys they hand out (just kidding, regardless of the amount of social services provided to community). Just because they won seats in an election does not nullify their inherently odious nature and proclivity for terror attacks.

 

HANIBAL

11:46 AM ET

November 27, 2009

Nazia, in your case ignorance is a blessing

Nazia
You are tyring to defend what is impossible to defend. I am not blaming Islam religion for something mslims do, AND is NOT sactioned in Islam.What I am clearly saying is that Islam, as is very clearl written in the Koran, sanctions Sex inside and outside marriage.Note this:
1- Men can marry up to four women AT ANY ONE TIME.
AND
2-Men can have sex with women slaves, owned by these men. This is clearly metioned in the Koran as MALAKAT YAMIN ( translated as owned by your right hand).
These practices are not aberrant behaviour, practiced by ignorant wealthy muslims. This ( as is everything else mentioned in the Koran is one of the teachings of Islam)
This explains how the Caliphs ( of the Umayyadh, Abbasid and Ottoman) empires would have harem that would number in the hundreds and thousnds. As anybody with a little background in Islamic history knows, the Caliph is not only a political position but the Caliph is also the custodian of the religion, and is responsible for upholding Isamic laws( shariah)
I am aware of the sexual pratices in the West and also aware of the abuses that the slaves suffered, BUT this is NOT part of the Christian religion. This is exactly my point.

 

SIR_MIXXALOT

3:05 PM ET

November 27, 2009

Good article. What's the

Good article.

What's the problem? Seems like a tame version of spring break minus the alcohol.

Looks like Hezbollah would fit right in American society.

 

MIKULASRING

4:32 AM ET

December 12, 2009

I dont like women to be

I dont like women to be fighting folks. I just dont like it at all.
James dean aka Rrod.

 

BRETT

2:51 AM ET

November 28, 2009

Sorry to say Sex is done in

Sorry to say Sex is done in casual way in western and non Islamic culture but any where in islamic society formal arrangement is arranged in the name of legal marriage procedures or sometimes in form of short contract marriages in Islam.

So it's a legal justification to have sex? I'd much rather just let men and women have sex if they want to.

Here the lady and gents pimps are openly distributing photos of young and nude prostitutes to all sexes without seeing that kids, minor and modest people are also visiting this tourist city of US.

If parents and "modest people" don't want to see that stuff, they shouldn't go in those areas. Even then, since when does seeing something sexual "hurt" kids? Particularly kids old enough to understand what it means - I guarantee they are already having very sexual thoughts.

And it's not a "slave market" if the women are working of their own volition.

If US president proved to have sex with his secretary at his official desk along with perjury charges then it is considered normal or funny in an un Islamic culture

Some people thought it was funny that the President nearly got impeached over it, but nobody thought it was particularly moral or normal. He was looked down upon for cheating on his wife.

but you people direct your mockery attitude toward muslims if found Muttah as an legal formality of having sex in war areas.

I'm mocking it because it is a paper-thin justification for prostitution and casual sex in a religious sect that condemns both. At least christians in the US tend to be more honest about it, and don't pretend that it has some type of justification in religion.

More to point, what's wrong with casual sex and prostitution (particularly if the latter is done by women who are of legal age and not being forced into it)?

 

HANIBAL

4:35 AM ET

November 28, 2009

Isn't it obvious: God wants

Isn't it obvious: God wants people to have sex, otherwise he wouldn't have come down with these rules.Viva la religion!

 

BIGZEEZ

2:48 PM ET

November 28, 2009

Proper photos are part of proper journalism.

It's a typical scene. A hot summer afternoon, father and son are waiting in the in the car for mom to finish up at the farmers market. Dad says, "check out what is coming up in his rear view mirror". Son turns to see- a stunning platinum blond in a white mini skirt and heals.

Typical, if it it wasn't in the middle of one of the poorest Hizballah slums in Lebanon.On a narrow pot holed street plastered with Hizbollah flags and propaganda. Complete with the dummy kartousha rockets pointed toward Israel.

What is even more strange is my dad and I were the only people gawking! And I live in Los Angeles. I was expecting at least a hoot or holler from the kids racing their mopeds.

Proper photos are part of proper journalism.

Pictures are not supposed to reinforce stereotypes anymore than the writing does. Maybe then people won't be surprised that Lebanese women like to look stunning and enjoy a good nookie as much as anybody else.

Hizbollah Lebanon is not Iran or Saudi Arabia. There are no fashion police enforcing strict Islamic code. Its a political movement. Even Hassan Nasrallah is reputed to know squat about Islamic theology for somebody of his stature.

 

RHYNO327

12:14 PM ET

November 30, 2009

damn...

You better believe it my friend, some of those Arab women are beautiful..damn I would be lucky to find a loyal beautiful woman like that..well, i never liked blondes, and long dark hair, olive skin is my preference..shame they would neuter me if they ever caught me..

 

SIR_MIXXALOT

1:08 PM ET

November 29, 2009

why is the article called

why is the article called militarization of sex!??!

You just describe some rules people have for having sex....where is the military in this??

 

SENSIBLE

11:33 PM ET

December 2, 2009

Read the article again

The author argues that Hezbollah is using mutaa or sex to grow and maintain their power as a militant organization. Basically, the bureaucratic dimension of Hezbollah uses sex to satisfy the needs of its non-bureaucratic dimension or fighters.

 

CITIZENWHY

1:17 PM ET

November 29, 2009

Nothing new

I heard the same comments from New Left narcissists back in the 60's, 70's.

 

CITIZENWHY

1:19 PM ET

November 29, 2009

New left, muslim right

Remember the poster? "Girls say yes to boys who say no."

 

RHYNO327

12:10 PM ET

November 30, 2009

OH YEAH!!!

Well, the shia have opened a door, among other things..i believe in love not war, so put ur AK's down and pick those condoms up!! Or, do they "ride" bareback? LOL!!! Religion is truly the opium of the people...yo, can I get into this program??? Sounds like FUN!! The oldest occupation in the book made legal..oh, you gotta be a moslem.but ur allowed to bed jewish, christian women IF they are divorced or widowed? Gimme me a break, nice try, i bet those "dowry's" get kicked upstairs to buy weapons etc..

 

NAZIA

1:20 AM ET

December 1, 2009

Ignorance can be bless or bliss butshouldnt be ruinous

Hannibal
You see only one side of Islam!
Mohammed is the perfect pattern for all humanity as other Prophets and his life was saturated in slavery. When his mother died, it was a freed slave who nursed him. His first wife owned slaves. One of his first converts was a slave. His closest friend, Abu Bakr, traded one of his black kafir slaves for a Muslim who was enslaved by a kafir.
Slavery was widely seen in rigid Arabic culture and also observed as a process that brings kafirs to Islam. It was a virtue to free slaves in initial Islamic History, and Prophet and his companions freed slaves as much as possible who submitted to Islam.
Four marriages for a man in Islam is a serious conditional option under specific rules and not an obligatory ritual.
The imposition of Islamic tribal medieval-ism and the ferocious Islamic Bedouins have proved to be too destructive, and crude barbarism won over a fine civilization .Societies under the Islamic Empire went further than any other in their total exclusion of women from political power and social influence. Islamic legislation went far beyond anything the Prophet had originally dreamed of in his tribal religiosity in cheating women of their rightful place in society and in matters of marriages,inheritance,slavery and other rights.

You civilized people! yesterday you refused to acknowledge the dangers inherent in the rise of the Christian Nazis and Communist ideologies.
Before pointing fingers on backwardness of Islam please dont forget that for centuries persecutions of jews and child molestations were part of priest cultures in strong christian communities.
What rich christian community had done to black women slaves was not very far history and South Africa is a place which is still trying to get rid of this culture protected under the name of religion,
Just 20 years back you people supported Islamic Taliban with your hard payers money and by promoting drug trade in war regions even when they trampled rights of their women under their feet. Your refusal to confront militant Islam today may cost us more dearly than our individual lives,our cherished achievement and our civilization.

There is no place for optimism for a liberal Islam. We have no doubts that nearly all Islamic states have failed to appreciate the basic human rights of their people, their women and their minorities. Saudis and Emirates the favorites states of west are the worst offenders; and are the financial godfathers of fundamentalism, extremism and Islamic backwardness everywhere..
Nearly every Islamic country under tyrannical rule which are all time supported by democratic western rulers is dangerous not only for itself but for the world as a whole.
Pakistan under US supervisions, for example, after supplying Iran and with Korea with nuke-secrets continues to offer the dangerous technology; Vietnam and Brazil are the new customers. The nuke-terrorist Dr. Abdul Qadir is safe, well protected and facilitated by the State of Pakistan, with full impunity.
Beliefs have consequences-the centrality of Islam to mental, social, intellectual and cultural backwardness; organized offenses against women and minorities; fundamentalism, extremism and modern terrorism are impossible to deny. "Religions of peace and tolerance" are mere empty words but see with whose joint venture it is all promoted.
Pakistan, Algeria, Saudi UAE .Afghanistan all have same thing common and it is its govt functionaries or military representatives are all time brokers of US dreams of controlling the world through her promotion of war culture under US flags.

 

NAZIA

2:35 AM ET

December 1, 2009

Objection is not on sex but on free sex

Brett
Dont separate my comments with hannibal as these are interlinked with his biased comments.
I have no problem and objections that what individuals want to do in the name of sex.
Now about legal prostitution in developed countries and its projection in such ways I mentioned in LV.
Ask any father of a daughter belong to any culture, region or any little civilized area that does he want to make his daughter a prostitute.(not talking about exceptions.
Inquire any health worker or Physician that how dangerous profession it is for young girls to adopt early ages,
Hardly any prominent religion in the world backs prostitution as noble or up to standard profession of humanity.
Florence street is situated in the center of LV area near top most Casinos and this area is some how knows as tourism place for all kind of visitors.You know very well that no 18 year kid is allowed to enter in any gambling , drinking or smoking area enacted by US govt.
So in one side they show us that they care about their young ones and try to prohibit it from such curses but on the other hand in the middle of all they encourage young with free sex as I told you happening in Florence street.What are these double and triple moral standards?
Nothing hurt to people of strong background after seeing such backward trends in modern ways but such standards shows the hypocrisy of a system and that is what I am pointing,
As per US data the most vulnerable professions here are police and prostitutes who have all time threat of life,injury and disease while they are on line of duty,
I think you have forgotten that how Americans reacted when Clinton was found in this scandal.You have to goback to archives for reminding the hilarious perception of public on this issue.Can you say that relgious group in US had accepted this act as normal.Your all Presidents are mostly Christians.Does Pope of vatican city ever allow adultery and poly gamy to US presdient.No doubt US system is different for such situations and you had put him under perjury charges.
But why you think he lied if he was normal and morally correct?
Does US wives and Husband allow free sex and adultery to their life partners with happy gestures?
No doubt Christians shows better signs of liberalism in 20th century where people and system had become literate and organized but here you are comparing Islam of suppressed and oppressed class/area who are tending towards volatile and out of track options for their survivals as a Muslim community and in christian history it was also seen once for a while.
So don't compare orderly with disorderly human behaviors on same level as both are surviving in different living conditions.

 

SENSIBLE

11:37 PM ET

December 2, 2009

Nothing wrong

Quoting Zahra towards the end of the article:

"I take good care of myself, and make sure I look perfect every time I go into a mutaa marriage because I should please my husband, temporary or not," she said. "It is my religious duty to do so. God allowed this kind of marriage for a reason, and I never question God's wishes."

If this woman honestly believes she is fulfilling her religious duty, then who are we to question her? Honestly, there can't be anything better than having sex for God.