They're Here, They're Queer, It's No Big Deal

Gay Israelis have been serving openly in the military for 17 years, and their country is safer for it. 

BY DANNY KAPLAN | FEBRUARY 3, 2010

Viewed from Israel, the continuing witch hunt against gays and lesbians in the U.S. military makes little sense. I have studied and written about the experience of gay soldiers in elite combat units of the Israel Defense Forces, where restrictions on gay enlistment were lifted in 1993, the same year the United States introduced the "don't ask, don't tell" policy requiring gay and lesbian servicemembers to say in the closet or risk being discharged. There has never been any suggestion that the participation of these men has hindered the performance of Israeli combat units.

The United States and Turkey are now the only NATO military powers that do not allow gays to serve openly, but Israel and other countries have shown that the participation of gay soldiers in combat units presents no risk for military effectiveness. What's more, acknowledging their presence might even improve unite cohesion.

It is important to understand that even without restrictions, most gay soldiers do not "come out" in combat settings. Only a few of the soldiers I have interviewed confided their sexuality in friends from the unit, and they often did so shortly before leaving their position. Most of them developed strategies to separate between their various personal and social identities. One soldier, a gay activist prior to his enlistment, explained to me: "I don't really see that the army and my identity have anything to do with each other. Just like there is a separation of religion and state, I draw a line between the army and my ‘religion.'"  This ability to balance conflicting identities is hardly unusual in the army. Soldiers of various ethnic and religious backgrounds similarly adjust to the melting pot of military culture.

This is why the policy of "don't ask, don't tell" has little relevance to the reality of military life. Despite what military officials want to ask or insist on not asking, and despite what gay activists want soldiers to tell about their sexuality, most straight soldiers are not interested in hearing it, and many gay soldiers are not interested in telling it. They simply are what they are and find ways to function together. Policies restricting the participation of gay soldiers paradoxically make sexuality a more salient issue.

Opponents of allowing gays to serve openly often point to the aggressive macho culture that dominates military units. But it is also hardly news that the military is a male-dominated homo-social institution based on intimate emotions between fellow soldiers. From the ancient Greeks, Romans, and Vikings to modern Israelis and Americans, close male bonding is a widely acknowledged component of military acumen. Regardless of sexual orientation, soldiers' erotic tensions are managed, controlled, and then channeled and used as an aggressive driving force to strike the enemy.

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Danny Kaplan is a professor of gender studies at Bar Ilan University in Israel. He is the author of Brothers and Others in Arms: The Making of Love and War in Israeli Combat Units.

GROUNDPOUNDER

11:37 AM ET

February 4, 2010

Allow "Queers" to Serve in the U.S. Navy and Air Force!

I personally think that "queers" should be allowed to serve in the U.S. Navy and Air Force! They'll fit right in with and have a "gay" old time! Call me old school, but what's "gay" about one man shoving his penis up another man's anus?

 

RANDOMPARADISE

7:32 AM ET

February 5, 2010

No one cares

To the "will and grace generation" no one cares if your gay and the ones that do don't matter. Groundpounder there is no place for your homophobia on a decent website like this.

 

BDL2010

7:21 PM ET

February 8, 2010

True no one cares

But I don't agree with us using other NATO nations as an example to emulate.

Didn't we just get done blaming them for failures in Afghanistan? True we need to be loyal to our friends and appreciate their efforts. But name the last time NATO accomplished anything without the help of the good ole USA.

Only gays rights groups care about this issue. Those in uniform already know there our gays in uniform. Most of us don't care as long as it does not affect the mission or violate what little privacy we have. Ultimately we care more about the mission and it's accomplishment. Too bad these groups care more about their agenda than the mission. If they did they would not be propping up NATO as the example.

 

DONNIE

4:39 PM ET

February 10, 2010

As for me, i don't appreciate

As for me, i don't appreciate that. They have to change their opinion about whom to f*ck, cuz that's rea'lly delirious. Even an essay writer proved my words.

 

ELDORET

6:23 PM ET

February 10, 2010

Sexual orientation and erotic tension in military

"Regardless of sexual orientation, soldiers' erotic tensions are managed, controlled, and then channeled and used as an aggressive driving force to strike the enemy"

Providing the 'enemy' does not include children, women and other non-combatants, as in Gaza, most of us have no interest in how soldiers' erotic tensions are managed. However, sex was intended for pro-creation not the opposite.

 

APHILLIPS

1:10 AM ET

February 16, 2010

Not just Israel

There are 25 military forces around the world who allow gays to serve openly without any negative impact on effectiveness. Organizations like The Palm Center have been studying and distributing findings about this for years - it's simply not true that there's no data out there on the topic. In fact, Palm is hosting summit in the spring on gay service in foreign militaries in order to find out what we can learn from their experiences eliminating this discriminatory policy.