They're Here, They're Queer, It's No Big Deal

Gay Israelis have been serving openly in the military for 17 years, and their country is safer for it. 

BY DANNY KAPLAN | FEBRUARY 3, 2010

"Don't ask, don't tell" has made things more complicated not only for gays but also for straights in the military. In the Israeli military, the lack of a legal penalty for disclosing one's sexual identity means that "over-affectionate" pals can choose to confirm or deny homosexual preferences to their fellow soldiers. But when "telling" is not an option, suspicion and paranoia of prevail.

The paradox is that when gays are allowed in the military, but not allowed to identify as such, everyone becomes suspected of being gay. It is no wonder that a rise in sexual harassment and homophobic crimes have been reported in the U.S. military ever since the "don't ask, don't tell" policy was introduced. When intimacy and sexuality -- which are, like it or not, key features of masculine military culture -- cannot be negotiated, cannot be told and discussed, they may be turned inwards, transformed into an urge to hunt fellow soldiers.

Israel's experience is a valuable starting point for the Pentagon as it begins to study what overturning "don't ask, don't tell" would mean. First, it is by now well-acknowledged that the mere participation of gays in combat units of the Israel Defense Forces has had no bearing on military performance and unit cohesion, whether or not soldiers come out. Second, Israel's experience shows that the presentation of the debate as a problem of accepting "open gays" is misleading. The dilemma of "exposure" is merely a distortion produced by the current U.S. policy. Israel has prevented sexual orientation to become a source of cause disruption by treating it as a fact of life rather than a problem to be addressed.

In Israel, military authorities have kept gay enlistment a minor concern by sticking to a minimal strategy:  officially acknowledge the full participation of gays and at the same time ignore them as a group that may require special needs. Gay soldiers do not receive, and do not expect to receive, any special treatment in combat settings. It is simply a non-issue. If the U.S. government will adopt a similar course, it could enjoy not only a more liberal military, but also, perhaps, a more combat-effective one where the focus is on defeating the enemy rather than questioning fellow soldiers.

At a time when Americans are attempting to lead a campaign against terror and foreign dictatorships in the name of democracy, they should be more apprehensive of what is happening in their own military backyard.   

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Danny Kaplan is a professor of gender studies at Bar Ilan University in Israel. He is the author of Brothers and Others in Arms: The Making of Love and War in Israeli Combat Units.

GROUNDPOUNDER

11:37 AM ET

February 4, 2010

Allow "Queers" to Serve in the U.S. Navy and Air Force!

I personally think that "queers" should be allowed to serve in the U.S. Navy and Air Force! They'll fit right in with and have a "gay" old time! Call me old school, but what's "gay" about one man shoving his penis up another man's anus?

 

RANDOMPARADISE

7:32 AM ET

February 5, 2010

No one cares

To the "will and grace generation" no one cares if your gay and the ones that do don't matter. Groundpounder there is no place for your homophobia on a decent website like this.

 

BDL2010

7:21 PM ET

February 8, 2010

True no one cares

But I don't agree with us using other NATO nations as an example to emulate.

Didn't we just get done blaming them for failures in Afghanistan? True we need to be loyal to our friends and appreciate their efforts. But name the last time NATO accomplished anything without the help of the good ole USA.

Only gays rights groups care about this issue. Those in uniform already know there our gays in uniform. Most of us don't care as long as it does not affect the mission or violate what little privacy we have. Ultimately we care more about the mission and it's accomplishment. Too bad these groups care more about their agenda than the mission. If they did they would not be propping up NATO as the example.

 

DONNIE

4:39 PM ET

February 10, 2010

As for me, i don't appreciate

As for me, i don't appreciate that. They have to change their opinion about whom to f*ck, cuz that's rea'lly delirious. Even an essay writer proved my words.

 

ELDORET

6:23 PM ET

February 10, 2010

Sexual orientation and erotic tension in military

"Regardless of sexual orientation, soldiers' erotic tensions are managed, controlled, and then channeled and used as an aggressive driving force to strike the enemy"

Providing the 'enemy' does not include children, women and other non-combatants, as in Gaza, most of us have no interest in how soldiers' erotic tensions are managed. However, sex was intended for pro-creation not the opposite.

 

APHILLIPS

1:10 AM ET

February 16, 2010

Not just Israel

There are 25 military forces around the world who allow gays to serve openly without any negative impact on effectiveness. Organizations like The Palm Center have been studying and distributing findings about this for years - it's simply not true that there's no data out there on the topic. In fact, Palm is hosting summit in the spring on gay service in foreign militaries in order to find out what we can learn from their experiences eliminating this discriminatory policy.