Yemen's Child Bride Backlash

After a 13-year-old girl's death, the conservative Islamists are retrenching -- with some bizarre, yet somehow effective, arguments.

BY HALEY SWEETLAND EDWARDS | APRIL 30, 2010

The sad case of Elham Assi, a 13-year old Yemeni girl who died from internal hemorrhaging after being raped by her 23-year-old husband, has certainly sparked conversation in Yemen over the longstanding practice of child marriage. But the conversations -- taking place everywhere from Sanaa kitchens to the parliament building -- aren't exactly what you'd expect.

Instead of addressing the question of children's rights in a country where a quarter of all girls are married before they're 15 and half before they're 18, some Yemenis are treating Elham Assi's death as a rallying point against the so-called imposition of a Western agenda. Instead of catalyzing protective legislation for children in Yemen, as the tragic 1911 Triangle Factory fire did for industrial laborers in the United States, her death may actually make it more likely that others will share her fate.

In February 2009, parliament approved a bill to raise the marriage age to 18 years old, causing an immediate furor in the Islamist community, which denounced the legislation as un-Islamic. The September 2009 death of a 12-year-old-girl in childbirth once again drove home the importance of this issue. However, the bill has since languished while a parliamentary subcommittee decides whether or not it's in accordance with sharia law. The subcommittee's decision is scheduled for May.

Over the past few months, Sheikh Mohammed Hamzi, an official in the powerful Islamist party, al-Islaah, along with hundreds of other conservative lawmakers and clerics, has issued a clarion call to "true believers" to oppose the law, arguing that it is a first step toward allowing the West to take over Yemeni affairs.

"We will not bend to the demands of Western NGOs. We have our own laws, our own values," said Hamzi, who made headlines again this week when a coalition of Yemeni rights groups announced it would take legal action against the sheikh for maligning activists as infidels and agents of the West during his regular sermons at a Sanaa mosque.

Elham's death sparked reinvigorated calls from local rights activists to pass the bill. In response, Islamist lawmakers, conservative clerics, and members of the ultra-conservative Salafist minority renewed their vehement opposition. On April 22, the infamous henna-bearded Sheikh Adbul-Majid al-Zindani, an influential Yemeni Islamist scholar and reportedly a former spiritual guide for Osama bin Laden, told a crowd at the conservative Iman University that the bill "threatens our culture and society," and he vowed to gather a million signatures opposing the law. His audience cheered in response.

Proponents of the bill say Islamists like Hamzi and Zindani are just using rhetoric to manipulate Yemeni public opinion. Here, anything that is perceived as un-Islamic or Western is immediately and virulently condemned by liberals and conservatives alike. The root of the problem, perhaps, lies in the frequency that these terms -- un-Islamic and Western -- are used synonymously. "If people think a law is ‘American,' it's done. Finished. It's over," said parliament member Abdulrahman Moazid, who supports the ban on child marriage. It's a political two-step not unlike referring to a law as "socialist" in certain circles in the United States.

KHALED FAZAA/AFP/Getty Images

 

Haley Sweetland Edwards is a freelance reporter living in Sanaa, Yemen. Her work, funded in part by the Pulitzer Center on Crisis Reporting, appears regularly in the Los Angeles Times.

NORBOOSE

12:04 PM ET

May 1, 2010

Yemen should be called a "non-developing" country

The law would be good, but it probably would have little impact. Yemen is about as backwards as it gets. Its still based on pre-industrial agriculture. The neither the state nor any large private organizations are very influential. Listen to them, their political rehetoric is identical to that of the postclassical era. People would simply ignore the law. Only some degree of modernization can bring any real improvements to Yemen. In the following, I suggest some possibilities.

1. Direct interevention: bad idea, not gonna happen, extreme response, no real strategic value to US. Next.

2. Direct broad support: also bad idea, counter-productive.

3. We might be able to just utterly leave them to rot, so they eventually realize how to act in their own self-interest. Problem is, the terrorist organizations could take power.

4. We could offer aid focused exclusivley on infrastructure-building, that usually works. But it has two problems. A. Weve never tried to do that before in a country with such an entrenched, virulent anti-Americanism. B. Ignoring the hideous social problems would likely enrage US voters to demand we make them change, leading to scenario 2

5. Act through regional power (Probably Saudi Arabia). Problems: corruption, conflicting motivations, who to choose.

If only we could somehow trick another world power into intervening, the results would be kind of funny in a morbid, cynical way. Those are all I can think of. Or if theres magically a cultural revolution inside Yemen, that would solve the problems. If something doesnt happen to modernize Yemen's society, things are just going to keep getting worse, for us and for them.

This is why I prefer dealing with China and Russia, they may be evil, but at least we can treat them like adults!

 

IDI

3:32 PM ET

May 1, 2010

I can assure you that more

I can assure you that more 'adult' women die in the USA from screwed up plastic surgery - boob jobs, liposuction, vaginal tightening - than young girls from early marriage or childbirth in Yemen or the wider Islamic world. The main source of female hormones are mares that are artificially inseminated again and again so they can produce hormones throughout their reproductive life. They have catheters permanently attached so urine can be collected and hormones retrieved and aging American women can have their vagina's permanently lubricated. Stop giving advice to others. No one is listening. In fact in about 20 years no one will give you the time of the day.

 

NORBOOSE

5:44 PM ET

May 1, 2010

Someone's never been to America

Okay... By me, do you mean me personally, or Americans, or "Westerners", or what. So... interesting horror story about horses. Not really much of a point. Plus, even if your right about deaths (which I doubt) isnt it better for adults to die due to their own life choices than children to be murdered?

Many-no cancel that- Most_no cancel that again- ALMOST ALL american women do not do what you say. The ones that do, have chosen to. They were not killed. The more I actually think about your logic train, the more I hate you. You, as an individual, are a bad person.

And whats this 20 years bullshit? I dont know who will be running things then, (Id bet a combination of the US, Russia, and China as world powers, with a series of important regional powers) but I guarantee it wont be whatever culture youre from Idi. If America ever goes off a cliff, the one thing I look forward to is how the third world will miss us. What do you think will happen, that the Muslim world will become stable and powerful and nothing bad will ever happen again? What would happen is that you would get to deal with newly aggressive China and Russia, and well, let me put it this way: Youll start missing us real fast. You are such a perfect illustration of the problems of most Muslim countries, I must suspect your a secret Zionist trying to make Muslims look bad.

 

OHREALLY

5:47 PM ET

May 1, 2010

Your post definitely earns

Your post definitely earns points for creativity. This is the first time I've ever heard of this particular use for the hormones of artificially inseminated mares (if those hormones are used for anything at all). Certainly you can furnish documentation for those of us that are not familiar with this treatment.

In any event, what you failed to mention is that decisions concerning plastic surgery are made by the women undergoing those procedures, virtually all of whom have reached their majority. They are not pubescent and prepubescent little girls subject to the whims of a father who sees them as pieces of property rather than the children they are.

This is not a part of Islam, this is child abuse, if not out and out sex slavery. How you could defend it is beyond me.

 

DEEJAI

9:58 PM ET

May 1, 2010

It's such a shame...

...that this is what former writers of the Weekly World News have come to since the publication stopped printing.

The number of women who have plastic surgery in the US is minuscule. And, because the US has extremely good health care, the rate of death from plastic surgery is far more minuscule yet. FYI, whatever surgical practices are used in your country, they were overwhelmingly developed and perfected in the US (with some contribution from Japan and Europe, both notably non-Islamic).

Almost certainly, the percentage of adult American women who choose to take the risk associated with plastic surgery, and who nevertheless die or are permanently injured, is FAR less than the number of raped Yemeni child brides whose insides are torn up, leaving them infertile, crippled, or dead.

This not only because nowhere near a third of US women have plastic surgery, while a third of young Yemeni girls are force-married, and thus raped, as children. It is also because utmost care is taken to not botch the surgeries. The overwhelmingly common outcome with the surgeries is health. In contrast, internal damage is an extremely common outcome when men force themselves into children. If care were taken with these girls, they would not be raped in childhood at all. They would be left alone until at least age 15, which is what the Yemeni marriage age USED to be before Islamists started messing around with it.

Regarding Premarin, first you have no business talking about the horse's rights unless you are a vegetarian. Find a video of slaughter--even halal slaughter--then post it here, and then claim it's better for the animal than production of Premarin. Second, Premarin is not used in any significant numbers anymore, because it causes cancer. Thankfully because we aren't wildly morally corrupt, when we find something hurts our family members, we stop using it. Third, when Premarin was used, it was used by MENOPAUSAL women, to ease menopause medical symptoms, like aches and hot flashes. This is easily as ethical as eating meat. There are lubricants old people use for sex, Premarin wasn't for this purpose. No one goes on a hormone pill for something that can be solved with jelly. To focus only on the sexual symptoms of menopause is absurd, and it demonstrates how you see women. Fourth, since most women are NOT menopausal, Premarin was by no means the largest source of female hormones in this country,--ordinary biology was. Again, you claim is absurd.

You are weirdly obsessed with what adult women CHOOSE do in order to enjoy sex, and weirdly unconcerned with what little girls are FORCED to endure so that men can perversely enjoy having sex with them. The values that can be deduced from this are that men's pleasure counts for more than the suffering and damage of children, while adult women's pleasure is an innate evil. This is a perverse perspective, the first part especially is akin to the value system of Jeffery Dahmer, and you should be in a mental institution for having it.

In 20 years, the US will still be a world power, we will just be sharing the stage more with China (which persecutes its Muslims) and Russia (which persecutes its Muslims). This will hardly leave you better off. Ask any Muslim who has been here and didn't go around with his nose in the air the whole time, and you'll find that the overwhelming majority of American are friendly to Muslims, and the overwhelming majority of women are not vanity-stricken whores but normal, modestly-dressed people concerned with their children, husbands, parents, and careers--usually in that order.

The culture of widespread child rape that you are defending is extremely immoral and perverse--far more so than a culture of voluntary and rare plastic surgery. There is no comparison between the two. To the extent that you link this perverse culture to your religion, all you do is convince the world--not just Americans but everyone with an internet connection, Russians and Chinese included--that your religion is barbaric. If it isn't, then you are doing your religion a huge disservice. So, clearly the real way to defend your religion is to focus on delinking it from obviously barbaric practices, not waving fingers about how dare someone else collect pregnant mare urine.

 

THEBLUEAMERICAN

12:57 AM ET

May 2, 2010

you don't get it

The adult woman who dies from a botched plastic surgery was there by choice. Explain to me again how a 13 year old girl had a choice in being raped.

 

MIKE4L

10:55 AM ET

May 2, 2010

No, according to the facts, you can't:

IDI, how do you support your claim that the number of American women who die each year due to plastic surgery is higher than the number of child brides who die due to child-birth in the Islamic world?

The facts and statistics do not support this claim.

USA:
death rate for plastic surgery in the U.S. is 0.0019% (1)
1.47 million plastic surgeries in 2009 (1)

So, 0.0019% death rate * 1.47 Million surgeries = 28 deaths expected in 2009 (1)

YEMEN:
more than 52% of all brides are child brides under 15 years old (2)
the maternal mortality rate was 430 deaths per 100,000 births (3)
there are 22,917,485 people in Yemen currently (4)
there are 35.32 births/1,000 population (2009 est.) (5)

So, 35.32 births/1,000 people * 22,917,485 people * 430 deaths/100,000 births = 3480 deaths in childbirth expected in 2009

In the Islamic world, sex before marriage is forbidden, we can assume that only married women are having sex, and by extention that child brides are having sex. Therefore, the birth rate applies equally to child brides. Since more than 52% of all brides are children under 15 years old, and only married women have sex, that mean that up to 1800 deaths (52% of 3480) each year are women under 15.

So, in Yemen, up to 1800 child-brides die in child birth each year versus 28 deaths due to plastic surgery in the U.S.A. And that's just for Yemen. We haven't even explored the largest Islamic countries of Indonesia (196 Million Muslims), Pakistan (125 Million Muslims), and Chine (135 Million Muslims).

Based on these numbers, upwards of 30,000 child-brides die in the Islamic world each year in child birth. Worldwide, there are about 536,000 maternal deaths each year, of which 99% are in the developing world (3).

Sources
1. http://www.plasticsurgery.org/Media/Press_Releases/Plastic_Surgery_Complications_and_Deaths_are_Rare_Despite_Highly_Publicized_Death_of_Donda_West.html
2. http://www.adnkronos.com/AKI/English/CultureAndMedia/?id=1.0.2237886194
3. http://www.who.int/making_pregnancy_safer/documents/9789241596213/en/index.html
4. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_Yemen
5. http://www.indexmundi.com/yemen/birth_rate.html

 

IDI

4:24 AM ET

May 2, 2010

Did you read the article?

Most Yemeni's are upset about early marriages. They are doing something about it. There are even nascent women rights groups that are raising their voices. Norboose, Mr America, however wants to 'trick another world power' into intervening. What do you mean? Intervene, how? Invade, kill, convert them into Christians. You are out of your mind. Who do you think you are? You assholes were lynching blacks until about thirty years ago. More than 2 million are in prison currently. You are responsible for more than a million deaths in Iraq and 4 million refugees. It will take them several generations to correct what has happened. All for what? So you can drive your fucking cars and go on vacations. If you went off a cliff every one would breathe a sigh of relief. Apparently one out of three girls is sexually molested by the time she reaches puberty in America. STD rates are at an all time high in teens. It is higher in the blacks, not that they matter.

Child marriage has nothing to do with Islam. Every girl has the right to say yea or nay to the marriage, in principle. Does it occur in practice? It does and it doesn't, depending upon the social situation, level of education, etc. Just like in the West. There are good caring people trying to rectify the situation. That is not good enough for you assholes. No, you are full of indignation and want to invade. So fuck off.

 

NORBOOSE

5:10 PM ET

May 2, 2010

Round 2

I am honored to be called Mr. America, even though I know how you meant it. I think you read my original post in the wrong tone. Yemenis helping themselves is the ideal solution. The problem is that these nascent groups will not be able to make permenent changes without modernization, and I, personally, dont see any sufficient modernizing trends inside Yemen.

The "trick" thing was an exclamation of exasperation. As was the "adult" thing I mentioned, which looking back, clearly set you off. By other world powers I meant China (not Christian) or Russia (Christian but extremely secular). Noone thinks that could happen, I didnt mean it seriously. The ideal solution is the one about infrastructure, or Yemenis solving their problems with little outside help.

Thank you for going at the racist angle. I did a little victory dance. Racism was, and remains to some degree, a problem. As a self-identifying nationalist, no group infuriates me as much as the old racist Southerners, who would have sold us to the Soviets to protect their contemptable little culture. Also, the risk should have occured to you that I might be a miscegenist(I hope I spelled that right). If I lynched blacks thirty years ago, Im older than I thought I am, and I have several loved ones I should probably speak to. (I am now doing another victory dance)

I will now address your points quickly. The prison population is a problem, but it has drastically improved our crime rate from what it was in the 80's and 90's. I was always against the Iraq war. I am kind of relieved to have Russia and Chinas as rivals now, since our decision-making process did start to decay without any peer rivals to keep us honest. (Such always happens, look at Rome, the Mughals in India, or the later Chinese dynaties.) The war was idiotic, I agree with you there, but once started, we did conduct it more humanely than any other nation in a similar situation. (That does not morally justify it, but if we lose our sense of comparison, all judgements are worthless) It was not for oil, however. It was about domestic politics, which is still awful. Bush wanted to step out of his father's shadow, and secure his popularity. China got most the oil deals, even the Euros got more than us.

I do not have any problems with Muslims. I know 6 well and dozens by name. All the American Muslims I know are very reasonable people. In my junior year of highschool, I was the right offensive tackle and the right guard was a Muslim. You may not know much about American football, but the Guard-Tackle relationship is a very close one. Often, they must instinctively know what the other is thinking so the opponent doesnt know what they will do. In the post-classical era, Islam was the only Eurasian civilization that did not
collapse into barbarism. Without it, not only would have all progress stopped, all the knowledge amassed by the classical civilizations of India, China, and the Mediterranean would have been lost. Since the Meso-American, Australian, and Southern African civilizations were stuck in the stone age, (Northern Africa is culturally considered part of Eurasia) humanity would have restarted with copper tools. Islam is not an inherently bad religion, but currently, the muslim world is probably the world's most screwed up.

Finally, I explicitly said intervention is a bad idea, so how do I want to invade?

 

MED

5:38 AM ET

May 3, 2010

HAHAHA

temper temper idi amin. forging in the conspiracy websites eh? No to get in between you and Captain America ( he has been promoted for taking you on, although it is not recommended), i wanted to further add to his points possibly correct. Our prison population: we have on average or below average crime (especially violent crime) in the OECD. Yes, turns out the 'gun-totting, crazy americans' have some the least amount of crime in the developed world. the prison population you so fondly like to recall, is mostly filled with people who cannot afford bail (people awaiting trial). there was an excellent expose on NPR, about this whole thing, essentially putting the blame on the bail-bond industry. Sexual molestation on the other hand is a problem no doubt; because we have laws against marrying children and trying to make sexual molestation kosher. you are flat out wrong about std rates, and please don't say we doctor the numbers. while i agree with you that child marriage has nothing to do with islam, it is counterproductive for the Prophet (PBUH) to marry a 6 and consummate that marriage at 9. It is hard to keep a straight face in such situations. easy with the curse words, otherwise it makes us feel you are hurt, and we americans dont know what to do when people are hurt. We either squirm in our seats, or invade the country of that IP address, and we do it with indignation of course. yes those last two sentences were sarcastic, in case it was above your head.

 

MED

5:45 AM ET

May 3, 2010

Correction

*marry a 6 year old, and consummate the marriage when she is 9.

 

IDI

2:35 PM ET

May 3, 2010

Hyena...

I don't respond to hyena like laughter, mangled syntax, retarded punctuation, and misinterpreted words from another rent-an-American. It is just too difficult to read.

So fuck off Med.

 

IDI

3:14 PM ET

May 3, 2010

Round 2.1 (beta)

Norboose

Good of you to see some of my points. All these issues are nothing but a side show to the real prize: Control of hydrocarbons in these areas. Demonisation of the 'other' is an age old tactic. It makes slaughter that much easier. I see that you proudly consider yourself a nationalist. I honestly would like to know why you think that is so commendable. I find nationalism odious. All nations are ephemeral and evanescent. Here today, gone tomorrow. Why is your country, other than being hyper wealthy, any different. Even with you, as your wealth and prestige diminishes, the descent into fascism, rank bigotry and intolerance has not only begun but is already well entrenched.

 

NORBOOSE

5:20 PM ET

May 3, 2010

I happily respond

This is one of those rare arguments that gets more civil as it goes on. All right. First, by hydrocarbons, I assume you mean the forms of oil useful to people, not the general chemical family. (I respect your attempt to trip me up, though)
Yes, the greatest problems of the Middle East (Which, as the center of Islam, greatly affects the rest of the Muslim East) still stems from the collapse of the Ottomans. For a long time, the Ottomans had no real competators, they grew complacent sitting on major trade routes, the Vizars increasingly made the Sultans puppets, in a society built around a strong executive. This lead to their long decline and collapse. Without that regional power, they were unable to prevent the creation of Israel, and to control their own natural resources. These two things utterly hamstrung the efforts to modernize. If there was no oil in the Mideast, or if the Mideast had oil AND powerful governments, foreign involvement would be much less. However, the role of oil is often overestimated. Oil deposits do lead to a signifficant foreign interference. But these are in the form of political and economic manuevering, espionage and infiltration, and maybe some special forces actions or air strikes, not real war. Modern warfare is just too damn expensive to be justified by anything other than a perception of strategic necessity. Strategic importance does not really have a pricetag in the minds of leaders. Why are we in Afghanistan? Its as much a wasteland as anywhere on earth. Even Iraq, if it were about the oil, we could have secured much more at much less cost. If we wanted oil that badly, we would not give any concern to drilling anywhere in America. Im pretty sure we could make Canada give us all their oil by having our president punch out their prime minister. In all seriousness, if we were that ruthless, we could easily threaten to remove our strategic umbrella, they would have literally no options.
I understand how demonization works. Thats why I was so reluctant to commit to any ideology when I was young. However, I know you understand that the sides in a conflict are not always morally equivalent. China and Russia are America's most powerful competators. Their governments disappear and assassinate thousands of their citizens per year. Mine doesnt. By every objective measurement, the US is just much less evil than any practical alternative. If America collapses, or loses its democratic ideals, humanity is damned to be ruled by utterlyy amoral superstates, kind of like 1984. Those realizations made me a nationalist, not brainwashing or self-delusion. To most people, being willing to devote your life to something because its"less evil," is unacceptable, so they think their side is perfect and the other side is evil-incarnate. That truth of moral complexity, simply does not bother me. Maybe that makes me a sociopath, but at least it makes me a useful sociopath.
The reasons I listed above are what makes America different. Without it, humanity is screwed.

 

HUSSAINMI

2:19 AM ET

May 3, 2010

Girls in Yemen

Why are so worried about the plight of girls in Yemen. Who has given you the authority to impose your values on each and every nation. Please mind your own business and find some other hobby for yourselves. The muslim world wants to live on their own.

 

GRASHNAK

8:44 AM ET

May 3, 2010

Girls in Yemen

One might also ask why are you so attached to the idea of raping children. Maybe YOU should find a new hobby.

 

DEDAV

12:47 PM ET

May 3, 2010

Girls in Yemen

#1 the plight of girls IS our business no matter where they live. And we have every right to speak out against any abuse. Yemen is not exempt from world opinion and civil rights.
#2 we obviously do have the moral authority when it comes to values. Every citizen living in any country may not follow the moral codes and laws. But at least most of the world has the good sense to condemn a child molester and put them in jail where they belong when they are caught. Which is obviously not the case in many Muslim nations.

NO, your culture is not equivalent to ours. If it were, you would not condone and protect your perverts and pedophiles, by calling it your "culture". Give me a break! That's enough to gag a maggot.

Fact is, and they know it, the men who support this hideous practice are weak perverts who need to prop up their manhood by stepping on the neck of their women. They are not competant enough to go out and compete, to win a grown woman's affections. They have to steal the virginity of a child...child rape, pedophilia. Period. That's what it is no matter how you try to paint it.

And for the women who support it, what can I say, pathetic. A disgrace to their gender and humanity in general.

NO, you will not be allowed to "live on your own" and commit the atrocity of child rape and pedophilia with out being called out for it, and condemned as the boil on the butt of humanity that you are.

Even if we can't change it, we will still condemn you for it. GET USED TO IT, OR STOP DOING IT.

 

LAL QILA

5:41 AM ET

May 3, 2010

Children should not be molested for any reason

Children should not be molested by Church elders or in the name of retrograde illiterate culture.

Children should not be molested in America when they come home from school and engage in massive; I mean massive, sexual orgies all over America.

Children should not be molested outside America in the in the name of retrograde illiterate cultures of Africa, Asia and elsewhere.

Perhaps, no sex should be allowed before the age of 21 anywhere and everywhere; it should produce massive benefits for the societies at large.

 

PALEHORSE19

7:48 AM ET

May 3, 2010

How shameful

Idi, as a Muslim, I am embarrassed by the comments that you make. No wonder the rest of the world thinks Muslims are barbaric and backward. Instead of having a civil conversation, you keep spouting racist rhetoric and profane language in anger. This article was not based on intervening, invading a country, taking vacations, or jails. Your racist comments about African Americans is sickening.

Now having said all that, as a Muslim, I will now say that I condemn child marriages. No need to go off on a profane tangent about invading countries. There is a reason behind the Holy Prophet Muhammad's (PBUH) wedding to Hadrat Aisha (RTA) at a young age and that reasoning was to strengthen tribal alliances, not some sick reasoning that people have. But everyone has their own opinion, so....

 

SHAMIRA

5:25 AM ET

May 6, 2010

The height of illiteracy

I agree fully with the comments above. As a Muslim, I too am embarrassed at people (Muslims and non-Muslims) commenting on such forums with complete lack of knowledge about the reasons behind our Prophets (pbuh) marriage to Aisha (ra). His marriage to Aisha (ra) , apart from being a divine command, was a strategic (and successful) socio-political move to strengthen Islam and leave in his passing, a person, a scholar who had insight and who would guide his people 50 years after his death. Those who support child marriages must stop using this alliance as an excuse to contract marriages to prepubescent children, adolescents and young teens. Islam demands psychological maturity (required for an Informed Consent)…and then…marriage. The problem here "age of consent"...nothing to do with foreign policy or invading countries.

Its high time people got rid of 'mental slavery'...i.e. thinking that the 'West' or 'America' are responsible for the human rights/children's rights activists calling for a ban on the practice of child marriage. It is very easy for clerics or leaders to incite people by using the words 'america' or 'western policy'. Perhaps it is time for us to bring in a new generation of Scholars who will adhere to the laws of Islam AND at the same time recognize the new Urf or social norms. Do Muslims realise how important it is for THEM to step up and say NO to this practice? Only then will the Clerics and Scholars realise that the majority of Muslims are opposed to this practice and stop blaming the west.

This problem is not exculsive Yemen, it is happening in the poorest and most illiterate regions. The fact is that the majority of Muslims are shamed by the practices of a minor group who are using the Sunnah as an excuse to commit crimes against humanity and are actually in violation of the laws of Islam.

For those who are interested in learning more about this topic, do reads this article:
http://docs.google.com/View?docID=0AcXIbtkMD2aoZGNiOG12cHhfMmNxdGh4OTZo&revision=_latest

Or join us on facebook:
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=155102399909

Or sign the Petition:
http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/childbrides/

 

GRASHNAK

8:42 AM ET

May 3, 2010

"Relative" Human Rights

Almost 20 years ago, as a young Canadian Foreign Service Officer, I attended a course in which we were encouraged to be culturally sensitive in discussing human rights in foreign countries. We were not to be seen to be trying to impose western standards.

On the one hand, this makes sense. You can't expect to make much progress in relations if you act like your host government represents a bunch of backwards savages. You have to recognize that there are genuine differences in how various cultures approach things like corruption and enfranchisement - sometimes you have to work with a culture rather than condemn it.

On the other hand, as I told the instructor 20 years ago, some things are always wrong. I don't care if you have a thousand year history of throwing widows onto the funeral bonfires of their husbands, it is always wrong.

Raping children is always wrong.

 

SMCI60652

10:22 AM ET

May 3, 2010

Moral of the story...

to me is how popular figures such as Zindani are with the public in Yemen.

The fact that an unelected fundamentalist can effectively nullify legislation passed by the lower house of an elected parliament is telling.

I've read all of the links that are in this article and not a single one of them have any techinical legal justification coming from Zindani, who claims that such measures are "Un-Islamic."

That's because the man is not a legal scholar. He's a biologist by trade. His most notable contribution toward Islamic knowledge is a book detailing the scientific accuracies of the Quran.

Which is not to say that a legal scholar wouldn't be capable of finding textual grouds for this law being unacceptable. But it does show that Islam in the Yemen largely revolves around demogogues who rely on slogans against the West as their most trustworthy guide as to what their own religion permits and prohibits.

I wonder what the take on this issue is of the more Traditionalist Sunnis, like the Ba'Alawis or Haba'ib of Hadramawt? I'm guessing those folks like to wait till their daughters can form and articulate fully coherent sentences before pondering their marriages... like most sane people.

 

SHAMIRA

5:27 AM ET

May 6, 2010

The height of illiteracy

As a Muslim, I too am embarrassed at people (Muslims and non-Muslims) commenting on such forums with complete lack of knowledge about the reasons behind our Prophets (pbuh) marriage to Aisha (ra). His marriage to Aisha (ra) , apart from being a divine command, was a strategic (and successful) socio-political move to strengthen Islam and leave in his passing, a person, a scholar who had insight and who would guide his people 50 years after his death. Those who support child marriages must stop using this alliance as an excuse to contract marriages to prepubescent children, adolescents and young teens. Islam demands psychological maturity (required for an Informed Consent)…and then…marriage. The problem here "age of consent"...nothing to do with foreign policy or invading countries.

Its high time people got rid of 'mental slavery'...i.e. thinking that the 'West' or 'America' are responsible for the human rights/children's rights activists calling for a ban on the practice of child marriage. It is very easy for clerics or leaders to incite people by using the words 'america' or 'western policy'. Perhaps it is time for us to bring in a new generation of Scholars who will adhere to the laws of Islam AND at the same time recognize the new Urf or social norms. Do Muslims realise how important it is for THEM to step up and say NO to this practice? Only then will the Clerics and Scholars realise that the majority of Muslims are opposed to this practice and stop blaming the west.

This problem is not exculsive Yemen, it is happening in the poorest and most illiterate regions. The fact is that the majority of Muslims are shamed by the practices of a minor group who are using the Sunnah as an excuse to commit crimes against humanity and are actually in violation of the laws of Islam.

For those who are interested in learning more about this topic, do reads this article:
http://docs.google.com/View?docID=0AcXIbtkMD2aoZGNiOG12cHhfMmNxdGh4OTZo&revision=_latest

Or join us on facebook:
http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=155102399909

Or sign the Petition:
http://www.ipetitions.com/petition/childbrides/

 

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7:47 AM ET

May 11, 2010

Ah yes, Yemen, pillar of women's rights

Firstly, I’d like to point out that this child was not “raped.” Under Islamic law it is not possible for a wife to be raped, so let’s stop calling it that.

Second – HA! This IDI character’s a true moron, I predict he blows himself up eventually. I wanted to respond specifically to this: You assholes were lynching blacks until about thirty years ago. Ah yes, and you assholes (Muzzoz) are still trading black African people as slaves in the Sudan. Gee, why is that? Probably because your primitive pseudo-culture/religion sanctions the capture of and trade in slaves, the Arabic word for slave and black are the same.

As for this: Most Yemeni's are upset about early marriages.

Any Yemeni who objects to child marriage is not a true Muslim. The Prophet married a child of six years old, consummated the marriage at nine. To criticise child brides is to criticise the Prophet, which is and should be punishable by the death.

Get your facts straight, feel free to ask me any further questions about your religion, I’m happy to help you on the path brother IDI.

 

SMCI60652

8:27 AM ET

May 11, 2010

Arabic

the arabic word for 'black' is aswad.

the arabic word for slave is 'abd.

I'd recommend going back to whatever polemicist 'scholar' you got your information from and asking for clarification.

While your at it, ask them whether every Muslim scholar in the past 1500 or so odd years was of the same conclusion that Muhammad married his wife at the age of 6 and made his icky consummation at the age of 9, which you seem a bit overly eager to shout out.

Furthermore, there were a wide range of activities that Muhammad engaged in that were made forbidden for his followers (i.e. marrying more than 4 wives, fasting for days at a time, etc.) So why then is it so implausible, if we accept that he married a wife at this tender age, that it wasn't part of his "khasa'is," instead of a genreal legal permissability for all that would follow?

Please help us on our path, sister.

 

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9:52 AM ET

May 11, 2010

Thanks so much for your

Thanks so much for your clever attempts to paint your religion in a more positive light, incidentally, the scholar is a Jordanian Quranist I work with every day.

Thanks so much for the clarification around the forbidden activities like child molestation, can you go tell 1 billion of your co-religionists this great news!? It seems that you're the only person if your ilk who's aware of this little detail, because it would seem most of the Islamic world is woefully unaware and continues to beat women, rape children and marry multiple wives as per the shining example set by the Prophet.

Good luck clearing up all these misconceptions, in the meantime the Red Cross, Unicef and other western organisations will carry on trying to defend the child brides, enslaved Sudanese and other victims of the beautiful religion of peace.

 

SMCI60652

3:38 PM ET

May 11, 2010

What's a 'Quran-ist?'

That's an interesting little neologism.

And of all the scholars that the land of Jordan has produced, you JUST HAPPEN to be working for the one that teaches you virulent polemics against a millenia-old faith adhered to by 1 in every 5 human beings on this planet? That's a pretty big coincidence. Who is this 'scholar' by the way?

Did you do some sort of survey showing you that 1 billion people believe child molestation is religiously sanctioned? If not, how can you make that assertion? Conjecture? Yes, there is gross ignorance and abuse of women in large parts of the Muslim world. As there is in the rest of the world. The only question to me is whether this abuse is permitted, and even defended by the law, and that law is based on religious understanding. Which, sadly to say, is true in the case of several Muslim countries. But the folks that justify and defend these things by no means represent normative Islam, and are rejected by the concensus of verifiable scholars, untainted by the madness of Modern Muslim reform movements. Movements trying to idioticly 'go back to the original sources' and failing miserably at it.

 

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10:03 AM ET

May 11, 2010

By the way...

It's interesting that you chose to focus on a minor point about language rather than addressing the issue that Sudanese Muslims are the world's last openly slave trading society. Semantic diversions, typically cheap tactics from a cheap civilisation.

Kind of funny the US gets the brunt of the blame for slavery, a practice that country ended two-hundred years ago, while Islam gets a pass.

 

SMCI60652

3:12 PM ET

May 11, 2010

Sudan

"that Sudanese Muslims are the world's last openly slave trading society."

Well that's 1 country in like 50 some-odd Muslim Majority members of the OIC.

So by that logic, since Rwanda is a Christian Majority country, and they suffered enthnic cleansing... it means ALL Christian Majority countries, in fact, the faith of Christianity, is somehow guilty of sowing and practicing ethnic bigotry.

Illogical premises. from a prejudicial bigot.

 

LAL QILA

3:55 PM ET

May 11, 2010

Yemen may be bad; Hindoo India is much much worse

Forced to marry at six, mothers by 12, their bodies destroyed by 20, the unspeakable abuse of Hindoo India’s illegal child brides is worse than ever – The illegal child brides of India

Read full article here: http://lalqila.wordpress.com/2010/05/11/forced-to-marry-at-six-mothers-by-12-their-bodies-destroyed-by-20-the-unspeakable-abuse-of-hindoo-indias-illegal-child-brides-is-worse-than-ever-the-illegal-child-brides-of-india/

And India calls itself the world's largest sham democracy.

 

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6:13 AM ET

May 12, 2010

Further learning

A Quranist is a Muslim who rejects all or most of the hadiths and only subscribes to the Quran (by the way, there's this really great tool called "Google," you might find it useful). Your blathering about how few Muslims accept the notion of child brides is just that, blathering. The fact is Muslim nations (Egypt, Saudi Arabia, Yemen, etc) sanction child marriage because it is part and parcel of the faith and an important part of the life of the Prophet, who is the shining example by which all Muslims live, or should aspire to live.

Not a day goes by in London that you don't see very little girls wearing headscarves. I wonder why that is? Probably because in Islam they are recognised as sexual property from the age of six, consenting adults from the age of nine.

So, I'd love to get your thoughts on the practice of "thighing." You've done a pretty poor job attempting to defend this vile religion so far, should be amusing to watch you stumble around trying to justify that one.

 

SMCI60652

1:27 PM ET

May 12, 2010

seriously? thighing? Why the obession with sex?

You mean Quran-only Muslims? If so, they are irrelevant because neither of the two large groups of Muslims in the world accept their creed as sound. So why you would mention them is beyond me.

As for little girls wearing Hijabs, last I checked most western countries gave parents the right to raise their children as they see fit, within certain recognized bounds of individual rights.

If a parent wants to instill Islamic values in a child from that tender age, that's their personal choice. I'd guarantee you however that if you ask the vast majority of those parents why they are imposing that on such little daughters, very few, if any, will describe their decision using the terms "sexual property." They'd likely tell you something along the lines of what they see as the inculcation of their "Islamic values."

And I'm not even going to bother going down that insane "thighing" rabbit hole with you. Suffice it to say that there is no textual evidence from the Qur'an, or the sound traditions of the Prophet, that would justify such an act on a child. If isolated fatwas here and there are your source, fatwas that don't even bother to explain the textual justification for the specific mufti's conclusions, then that should be the end of the discussion. Unless ofcourse you're a virulently anti-Muslim fanatic with an axe to grind. If that's the case, I hope you find happiness in your doubts.

 

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1:51 PM ET

May 16, 2010

Your taqiyya needs a lot of work mate

Obsession with sex? Great question, can you tell us why so many Muslim males in Yemen, Egypt, SA and elsewhere are obsessed with sex with children? As for you implying that raising the issue of thighing indicates some kind of sex obsession, have you noticed that this article is about sex with children and how your culture and religion sanctions that for adult men? Try to stay focused.

Once again, you fail to acknowledge any of the issues at hand. You can’t comment about Muslim slaveholding in Africa because the simple fact is that it is supported by the Koran and it is part of Muslim culture. You can’t comment about young girls wearing headscarves because the simple fact is that female children are regarded as sexually desirable, therefore they are required to cover themselves so as not to arouse men – that is the very definition of “sexual property,” which as you wisely point out is a key Islamic “value.” What a beautiful faith!

As for thighing, let me enlighten you, once more. The practice was referenced by the Ayatollah Khomeini.

"A man can marry a girl younger than nine years of age, even if the girl is still a baby being breastfed. A man, however is prohibited from having intercourse with a girl younger than nine, other sexual acts such as foreplay, rubbing, kissing and sodomy is allowed. A man having intercourse with a girl younger than nine years of age has not committed a crime, but only an infraction, if the girl is not permanently damaged. If the girl, however, is permanently damaged, the man must provide for her all her life. But this girl will not count as one of the man's four permanent wives. He also is not permitted to marry the girl's sister."

Any comments? No? Wonder why that is... maybe it’s because your religion and your culture are so weak and disgusting there is no defence for it.

 

SMCI60652

10:17 AM ET

May 17, 2010

What happens when immature people set out to discuss Religion...

can you tell us why so many Muslim males in Yemen, Egypt, SA and elsewhere are obsessed with sex with children?

How many? I mean is this some epidemic we're talking about? What proportion of men in these countries are pedophiles would you say? And is that proportion higher or lower than those in say, the U.S? Do you have any empirical evidence supporting your claims?
Yes, it's a problem. The main issue is what society's attitudes are towards these problems. In most countries, pedophilia is an odious crime. In Yemen, it's been sanctioned by [a few people's] warped interpretation of religion, unfortunately.

What you're doing though is taking the empirical practice of it, and presenting it as a reflection of the normative permissability of it by a major world faith. Which, I dare say, isn't believed to be the case by unanimous consent of Islam's adherents, either now, or even historically.

As for staying focused, the article also mentions that there are Yemenis (most definitely practicing Muslims) who also advocated laws against these things. I mean let's try also to focus on the fact that a Muslim Majority parliament introduced the law and passed it as well. The article is about the outrage AFTER the fact by fundamentalists and those that are coddling them for political support.

Once again, you fail to acknowledge any of the issues at hand.

I believe you're just resorting to flat-out lies at this point, for my previous comments clearly talked about these things:

"You can’t comment about Muslim slaveholding in Africa because the simple fact is that it is supported by the Koran and it is part of Muslim culture."

Yes, slavery isn't outlawed by the Quran. But there is a concerted effort to phase-out slavery by making the freeing of slaves an expiation for one's sins. The Catholic Church had popes that made indulgences a 'get-out-of-jail' card for its followers. "Give more money to the extravagant Church and erase your sins." In Islam, the highest way to expiate sins? Free slaves if you have them. Or feed the indigent. Or serve people around you. Islam's position on this issue is the same as it was for alcohol. There was a time where it wasn't outlawed, then it was made restricted because certain devotional acts couldn;t be done while intoxicated. Then it was finally forbidden. Slavery was a much bigger, much more wide-spread, socio-economic reality of every single race on Earth at the time the Book was revealed. It's phased elimination is, again, the normative stance of the Book. If Muslims failed to live up to that, that's their problem. Don't blame the Book.

"You can’t comment about young girls wearing headscarves because the simple fact is that female children are regarded as sexually desirable, therefore they are required to cover themselves so as not to arouse men – that is the very definition of “sexual property,” which as you wisely point out is a key Islamic “value.”

I can comment. And I did comment. And it's not a 'simple fact' as you stated. It's a 'bold faced lie' on your part. I don't know a single Muslim that shared your view about "female children [being] regarded as sexually desirable." Nor have I ever read any such thing in any authoritative text in Sunni Islam which was agreed upon by the community of scholars. So far you haven't given a single source for your incendiary assertions. They're just empty claims.

The Ayatollah Khomeini, if he in fact gave this fatwa, is not an authoritative source with like, 90+% of Muslims in this world. It's like me saying David Duke or Glen Beck speak for America. They may speak for a certain portion of Americans, but they don't represent the views of all [or even most] Americans, and certainly don't speak for the normative American creed. Nor did Khomeini, in his fatwa, say where he was getting all these conclusions from. What textual evidence was he basing these things on? Did every other legal scholar (much less the majority of them) agree with his conclusions?

My religion doesn't sanction the libelous crimes that you're accusing its adherents of. And there is no such thing as one stagnant, monolithic, "Muslim Culture." Asserting so just exposes further your pre-committed, rather illogical, ideological bend. You start with the imperative that Islam is bad, and you proceed to garb that pre-judice with age-old sophistry, all to try and prove to people that you were just committed to impartial truth and stumbled upon in after careful study. That's the real essence of taqiyya... mate.

 

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12:01 PM ET

May 17, 2010

What do they teach you kids at those madrassas these days?

Nice try, could be better, but nice try. To your first point... conservative estimates put it at around 45 million. That’s a whole lot of underage girls getting married don’t you think? As for a comparative study of child abuse in the US/Islamic world the figures don’t exist but here’s the key difference – we in the west punish men who abuse little girls, you in the backwards Muslim slums of the middle east and elsewhere consider it part of daily existence and an example from the prophet's life to be emulated. You following me? You can blather on about how child brides aren’t supported by Islam but that’s just a load of camel crap mate, governments in Egypt (your “civilization’s” core state), Saudi Arabia and elsewhere have upheld child marriage laws because to do otherwise would be simply unIslamic.

"Yes, slavery isn't outlawed by the Quran."
I know I’m right, it is condoned and fully supported by the scripture of the “religion of peace.” Nice attempt at deflecting attention away from the crimes of Islam. The fact that you are citing a “concerted effort” to phase-out slavery by making freeing slaves a “get out of jail free” card for sinning is only further evidence that your culture (if you can call it that) is hilariously primitive. Indulgences in Catholicism ended centuries ago. Even more troublingly, in Islam it is not a valid argument that you should not hold slaves because it is wrong, you have to bribe these bearded, robed slave owners with yet more cheap superstition. Your argument about not blaming “the book” is among your weakest yet – THE KORAN SUPPORTS THE PRACTICE OF SLAVE HOLDING, GET OVER IT.

As for little children covering themselves with your disgusting robes, let me clear this up for you, as you’re obviously struggling a bit. Women in your religion are commanded to dress modestly. Why is that? Because they might arouse men, therefore they are required to cover themselves. Women are deemed to have sexual potency that must be controlled by other men (fathers, husbands, etc). That is the very definition of “sexual property.” Get it? When you apply this to little children it becomes even more disgusting. You must be so proud. By the way, no one cares about the Muslims you know, as you like to remind others, there are over a billion of you people.

Your flowery language is a nice change of pace from the usual “Islam good, west bad, die indifels!” that we usually get from your ilk; however, you’re playing a losing game here by trying to defend a “culture” that is indefensible. Your Prophet screws children, your holy book reads like something from the Marquis de Sade, you openly refer to Jews and Christians as pigs and apes and your “book” encourages wife beating. And now the Islamic world is reaping the fruits of its foul origins – your civilization is notoriously corrupt and incompetent, you are decades if not centuries behind the rest of the world scientifically and your kind are widely regarded as the new welfare parasites of Europe. On top of all this you can barely pull off a terrorist attack or two. Yeah, good luck with that.

 

SMCI60652

1:09 PM ET

May 17, 2010

Again...

as you provide no citations, and no proof, along with zero textual evidence supported by classical [or even modern] commentary, it's not even worth arguing with you anymore.

You're clearly not interested in informed debate. Just sensational claims and name calling.

As a parting gift, just consider one thought... the enlightened England which you hail from, as well as umpteen universities in France, Germany and the United States play host to tenured professor after tenured professor, many of whom are atheists, and most of whom aren't Muslim... but ALL of whom categorically reject your reading of Islam.

Even the most critical Orientalist scholars reject the obvious polemics that you *and your ilk* spew about in order to turn people against Islam.

This is to mention nothing of the fact that there are countless Muslims, at this stage, and historically, that are far more enlightened, gifted, and humanistic than you and I, and they were devout worshippers, who would have categorically rejected pretty much everything you believe to be 'facts' about this religion.

So inspite of the things you claim, at the end of the day, your bantering is pointless, as only I am reading your non-sense... and even I don't care anymore.

 

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3:57 PM ET

May 17, 2010

So, did you like "Four Lions"? It was hilariously accurate!

Translation: “I give up, there’s not much more I can say because the evidence plainly speaks for itself, so I’m going to try to save face by accusing you of immaturity because I’m cheap, my culture is cheap, and we get by on half-truths, finger-pointing and playing the victim.”

By the way, I’ve presented facts from the Koran, from human rights organisations, from revered public figures of the Islamic world. No one really cares what Orientalist scholars do or do not reject, I’m only interested in the thoughts of other democrats and free-thinkers who are defending the rights of other democrats, gays, Jews, Christians, Hindus, women, children and the First Amendment against the onslaught of your fork-tongued parasitic pseudo civilisation. As far as “turning others against Islam” you guys do a much better job of that than I could ever hope to. Every time we see a burka on the street, a child in a hijab, every time you file a frivolous lawsuit or attempt to blow up a civilian target more and more of us wake up to your ways. If you knew how covert and how huge the global counter-jihad movement is you would be shocked. Every day you have fewer and fewer friends. Some of the most ardent supporters are Kurdish, Hindu, Malaysian and African people who have lived under the brutal rule of the disgusting barbarism you call “peace.”

As a parting gift, and I have given you a tremendous amount of knowledge in this discussion, consider the situation regarding your esteemed Islamic professors as it pertains to University College London.

Daily Telegraph: “As recently as last month, Abu Usama, who teaches that homosexuals and apostates should be killed, was due to speak at UCL until the university finally bowed to pressure and cancelled the event.” Wow, you’re so right, what a bunch of “enlightened, gifted, humanistic” people!

You, and your people, are truly, truly laughable, and rest assured, we are laughing.