The Not-So-Radical Roots of Miss USA

Rima Fakih is no Hezbollah hottie -- she's the living embodiment of Lebanon's cultural complexity.

BY HANIN GHADDAR | MAY 21, 2010

The recent uproar among some conservative American bloggers over Rima Fakih, the Lebanese-American woman who was crowned Miss USA on Sunday, has been unique: Not many people -- let along beauty pageant winners -- have been accused of being both a pole dancer and a Hezbollah operative.

Among less-hysterical commentators in the United States, the victory of an Arab-American in the contest has produced a very, well, American debate. Fakih's detractors have leveled accusations of affirmative action. Others have cast the new Miss USA as a lesson in the value of assimilation and a poster girl for religious and ethnic diversity.

Here in Lebanon, however, the reaction to Fakih's coronation was somewhat less complicated: It was pure ebullience. In an official statement on Tuesday, President Michel Suleiman said, "Congratulations to Rima Fakih for showing the beautiful image of Lebanon in the world." Having been  runner-up for Miss Lebanon Emigrant in 2008, Fakih is already a national icon. Now she will enter history as a Lebanese hero, many commentators wrote.

Claims of Fakih's Hezbollah connection -- which originated with a single American blogger and haven't been substantiated -- generally have been viewed as slander in Lebanon. (The pole-dancing allegations are another matter, though mostly because people here fear she might lose her title.)

"All these accusations about her relationship to Hezbollah are nonsense," Fakih's 80-year-old uncle, Ahmad Said, told me when I visited him at his family's home in Souk el-Gharb, the Christian village in Mount Lebanon where Fakih spent the first seven years of her life before moving with her family to the United States. He was holding a copy of the local newspaper, which carried an article describing the American allegations of Fakih's radical roots. "Everyone in the family, not only Rima, celebrates both Christian and Muslim holidays," he continued.

Fakih's extended family is not exactly the Islamist terrorist cell of the right-wing pundits' imaginations: For one thing, their house is distinguished from the neighbors' by a big U.S. flag hung from its balcony, surrounded by ribbons and flowers. In the entrance, a Quran and a Bible are placed next to each other on a stand; "There are many mixed marriages in the family, so you cannot really call us a Muslim family," Fakih's 62-year-old aunt, Afifa Fakih -- the only woman in the household wearing a veil -- explained. "We love America," she added. "Without the USA, Rima wouldn't have fulfilled her dreams. She made us all proud, and for that, we thank the Americans."

Afifa and Ahmad were resting after what they described as a "hectic week with reporters and celebrations." On a table next to a plate of cake and sweets was a set of family photo albums on display for the family's numerous visitors. Fakih, as a little girl and a teenager, appears in many of the photos, surrounded by family members in Lebanon and the United States. In some shots from the beach, everyone, including the women, is wearing swimsuits.

The bikini that Fakih wore in the Miss USA contest has been the most contentious aspect of the whole affair in the pageant winner's childhood neighborhood in Srifa, the southern Lebanon town where her family is originally from. "I am not specifically proud of Rima. Her behavior contradicts our traditions," said a man named Fayez Najdi, hanging out in a cell-phone shop near the family's home. "This has nothing to do with American politics. Even if she was Miss Lebanon, my position would be the same."

MAHMOUD ZAYAT/AFP/Getty Images

 

Hanin Ghaddar is managing editor of NOW Lebanon.

BERTRAND

12:20 AM ET

May 22, 2010

proud of miss usa

The article makes it sound like conservatives are against her being Miss USA. I'm conservative and I'm proud of the fact that she became Miss USA. As far as allegations of pole dancing, there have been similar allegations of MANY recent beauty contest winners. I'm not sure what right wingers have been accusing her of being an agent of hezbollah. This is the first I've heard of it. Sounds a bit ridiculous to me. Anyway...I just wanted to state that overgeneralizing conservatives as against her crowning as Miss USA is not accurate.

Congratulations Fakih on a well deserved win!

 

ENRICO_PALLAZZO

3:40 PM ET

May 22, 2010

Re: JOHN_MAX

Thanks for your 'facts', JOHN_MAX. Taking the views of a few and ascribing them to millions of others is a great way to move the discussion forward productively. This Jewish American was thrilled to see Ms. Fakih take the crown as I suspect most everyone else was as well.

 

WALT KOVACS

9:13 PM ET

May 22, 2010

that "blogger" has no credibility anyway

she got her start on the howard stern show, cuz howard loved to make fun of her voice and the fact that she was a virgin in her late 30s

 

SANTANA

10:24 PM ET

May 22, 2010

good luck to miss america

it was the darling of fox news michele milliken who started to smear miss america followed mostly by far right zionists.in my view milliken is mad because miss fakih is so beautiful and she looks like a wet rat fresh from a sewer.

 

SURESH SHETH

4:51 PM ET

May 23, 2010

Not so-radical for a day

The problem in such reporting is that Muslims know all too well what Western reporters or the middle east reporters working for Western news media want to hear and so they feed to these reporters what the reporters want to hear to begin with.

And it was natural for the house to display the American flag since one of their own had won Miss USA pageant. Family members would have no problem distancing from Islam either for a day, a month or even a year if need be.

But does it mean that they really have repudiated core messages of Koran that are so out of step with present-day democratic principles? Very unlikely.

Don’t be surprised if they are bad-mouthing USA and Israel in their private off-the-record conversations with fellow Muslims just as badly as any Hezbollah member.

 

LAL QILA

8:29 PM ET

May 23, 2010

Why do the vast majority of Hindoo Indians bad mouth America

Why do the vast majority of Hindoo Indians bad mouth America, albeit not on the face of Americans because of the American jobs flying into India, but as soon as the white man or gora sahib is out of hearing distance?

What is the real cause of Hindoo Indian severe hatred of Americans; does it have anything to do with the 60 years of momentum of Soviet Union-India Friendship Treaties (read offensive defense pacts)?

Do tell, we are all eagerly waiting.

 

SUDKAN

9:58 AM ET

May 27, 2010

take off that tin-foil hat!

you are beyond pathetic! take a break and go get some fresh air

 

SB2010

10:25 PM ET

June 3, 2010

Au contraire

My friend "Lal Qila", your Islamic roots are clearly on display here. You might want to tone down that genocidal hatred of "Hindoos" that you spew liberally.

For the record, "Hindoos" consider America as their natural ally. Soviet bonhomie was born from the delusions of an culturally alienated and self-loathing Nehru.

 

BRAT_NASS

5:02 PM ET

May 23, 2010

WMD vs WMS?

Rima Fakih to make the first page of Foreign Policy under the title "The Myth of the Hezbollah Hottie" Gotta have some humor and find it funny!

I personally came to the conclusion that the USA might have finally found their weapons of mass destruction (or should i call it mass seduction) it was on American soil all that time and CIA was unaware.

I knew they should've brought Jack Bauer, he would've found her in 24 HOURS!!!

 

LAL QILA

8:34 PM ET

May 23, 2010

Why the right wing NUTS and Neocon Hate an Arab Miss USA

New Miss USA Rima Fakih is Arab-American!

A great day for Arab-Americans – at least it should be until a group of ultra right wing haters begin their concerted attack upon her –

Why They Hate an Arab Miss USA

Read more here:
http://lalqila.wordpress.com/2010/05/23/new-miss-usa-rima-fakih-is-arab-american-a-great-day-for-arab-americans-at-least-it-should-be-until-a-group-of-ultra-right-wing-haters-begin-their-concerted-attack-upon-her-why-they-hate-an-arab/

 

ROBYN MOSLEY

2:57 AM ET

June 20, 2010

Rima Fakih

So many people were obsessed about Rima as a new Muslim celebrity who could open up discussions about Islam. But I wonder why the Arab community never backed some prominent women in the media who also have Muslim heritage. I have some important questions: What if Rima Fakih came from an African-American Muslim family in some place like Philadelphia? arizona local florists Would the American public, let alone the Muslim community, have been so forgiving about the pole dance? Would altMuslimah and Muslimah Media watch feature articles saying that her victory was a sign that Muslims were part of America, too, or that she could open up discussions about Islam? Could these women of African descent and Muslim heritage create a chance for discussion about Islam and American Muslim’s place in this society? I don’t know why people can’t understand that, just as there are many kinds of Christians or Jews of various races who follow different rules and even hold different values, there are various kinds of Muslims also. phoenix flower delivery For some of them religion is more a family background than an everyday influence. the take away from the “shocking” Muslim Miss America, is that it’s wrong of us to try to understand people by putting them in stereotypical boxes.

 

SMCI60652

9:18 AM ET

May 24, 2010

You've got to hand it to her...

she has managed to be condemned by the Radical Right in this country and the Religious Conservatives of the Arab world... at the same time.

It's become obvious what one needs to do to unite these two factions and challenge the "Myth of the Clash" ... become a sucessful Arab American.

 

NATALIA S.

10:42 AM ET

May 24, 2010

A good representation of America

I think Ms. Fakih is actually a good representation of what America is about. She is someone who has been able to create a new life in a foreign country, to be accepted here, and to pursue wonderful opportunities.
I know the concept of the American dream is outdated and definitely over-idealized. However, as an immigrant who is now a U.S. citizen, I have to say that there are two things almost always true about immigrants:
1) They left from something worse. If everything was great in their home country, the cost of starting anew would not be efficient.
2) America provides amazing opportunities for everyone. Those who do not prosper after moving (or at least do better than in home country) are themselves at fault. America treats us well.

The strength of America is that it welcomes people, and as much as it is our human nature to stereotype and discriminate, America is one of those countries that makes a conscious effort to stop using these heuristics.
She is a gorgeous girl and people should be proud of what America was able to offer her.
We should also recognize that her family reciprocated America's generosity by altering their world views and becoming a little more open minded.

Also, I can't believe some people who make insane assumptions with no factual support are actually taken seriously.

 

ILPALAZZO

12:09 PM ET

May 25, 2010

Nice source

>said a man named Fayez Najdi, hanging out in a cell-phone shop near the family's home

Well, I'm glad we got the opinion of a guy who hangs out in cellphone shops...

 

BABA1911

2:50 PM ET

May 27, 2010

Very bad

Miss USA think they are star and their lifestyles, ways, styles change dramatically ! I really hate this. Female Magazine

 

ABDULAMEER

11:02 AM ET

May 29, 2010

Miss USA

Hurrah to the judges for choosing Rima Fakih! She is precisely the type of "Moslem" that Americans can accept -- non-religious and thoroughly integrated into American life. She is in flagrant violation of Islamic sacred religious sharia law, and religious Moslems in America are not happy about her at all. She is a slap in the face to religious Moslems, and her celebrity will help to focus Americans against the religious Moslems who are causing all the trouble. If Rima Fakih ever paraded around scantily clad in public in a Moslem country like she did here, she would be lucky to get out alive. More power to her!

 

SB2010

10:31 PM ET

June 3, 2010

Frankly

All this commotion over some teenager who's won is unwarranted.
Her win doesn't signify anything.
She's not radical, but hey, I am willing to bet she'll marry a Hizbollah operative a few years hence. (Interested readers may check the case Abu Hassan Salameh, the man responsible for Munich massacre. The man was married to a Lebanese beauty pageant winner)