Liberté, Égalité, Virilité

The French don't just tolerate their politicians' sexual dalliances -- they demand them.

BY ELAINE SCIOLINO | JUNE 10, 2011

The arraignment of Dominique Strauss-Kahn on charges including attempted rape and sexual abuse of a hotel housekeeper has stunned France. Strauss-Kahn, a Socialist who was forced to resign as head of the International Monetary Fund, was about to announce his intention to run for president in 2012. His reputation as a womanizer did not seem to hurt his chances; he was ahead of President Nicolas Sarkozy in the polls.

That changed when Strauss-Kahn, a man who had been known as a grand séducteur, suddenly was accused of being a violent criminal. Certainly, the Strauss-Kahn scandal has nothing to do with seduction à la française. But it has focused attention on the age-old habits of French politicians -- male politicians, that is -- to use seduction as a campaign tool. I explore that issue in detail in my current book La Seduction, from which the following is adapted.

In the United States, sexual desire is considered a distraction from the hard work of governing. Politicians are supposed to be pure, or at least strive to be. Americans have proved time and again that they see a politician's cheating in marriage as tantamount to cheating on the voters and the country. Even the most innocently playful banter can have negative consequences. [As we've seen in recent days, the salacious online sexual liaisons of Representative Anthony D. Weiner of New York and his subsequent lies about them have prompted several prominent Democrats to call for his resignation.]

In France, the ability to seduce a lover and engage on the playing field of sexual pleasure, in or out of marriage, is regarded by both men and women as a basic male competency, and no male politician dares risk being seen as inadequate. An aura of virility and sexual potency is not merely a plus. It's a necessity. A political man who reveals his sexual prowess is proving his good health and vigor: he is showing his constituents that he is fully and physically capable of running the country.

When asked in 1992 by the popular magazine Actuel whether they had ever cheated on their wives, most politicians showed little hesitation to answer in the affirmative. "I will not lie to you," one senator replied. "In Marseille, everything is known. I do not drink. I do not smoke. I never gamble. But I have one passion, and I repeat one passion: I love women. I have been a very, very, very great womanizer."

"To come to power, you have to seduce, and to stay there, you have to prove yourself vigoureux," wrote Jacques Georgel in his book, Sexe et politique. Politicians are not hounded out of office for sexual indiscretions, and the public is oft en happy to let their secrets remain officially under wraps. But seduction flows as an undercurrent in public and private life, so it is natural that talking about politicians' personal lives is part of the national discourse.

French politicians are allowed to enjoy their enhanced opportunities, unlike Americans, who are forced to take up the mantle of purity just when assuming high office might give them an advantage in the sexual game, This reality flows from centuries of precedent. The kings took sexual seduction to new heights. There was a hierarchy to the women in their lives: wives, significant others (known as "favorites"), and women passing through the court who provided fleeting adventures. To make sure that no one forgets France's royal history today, the kings' escapades are routinely retold in cover stories in mainstream weekly news magazines.

The tradition of seduction carried forward into modern times. Edgar Faure, a politician who wrote crime novels under a pseudonym and was a member of the Académie Française, liked to say that he had all the time in the world to succeed in his operations of seduction.

 SUBJECTS: FRANCE, EUROPE
 

Elaine Sciolino is a Paris correspondent for the New York Times. Her latest book is La Seduction: How the French Play the Game of Life.

MIK

4:03 PM ET

June 11, 2011

nice

I'm french from simuler assurance voiture and I think what you say in this article is very true. There is a tradition of seduction in France.

 

RMDUENAS

11:08 AM ET

June 13, 2011

About traditions...

There is also a tradition of stoning women to death in some Muslim countries; a tradition of mutilating their clitoris in other countries; a tradition of killing bulls in yet some other regions; a tradition of corruption in a lot of places. There was also a tradition of killing indigenous people in what are today the lands of the United States; a tradition of having slaves in many countries, and the list of such past and present "traditions" goes on and on. The fact that these traits are "traditions" is nothing to be proud or brag about. It also does not mean that these "traditions" do not need or have to be changed. If the French were able to ban the Islamic veil from public places, I am sure they can also work towards changing this behavior from their male public servants.

 

JESSICAH

7:55 AM ET

June 12, 2011

super (a la francaise)

Such a well written and true account of French politics. In fact, that quote from Faure rings so true, I wonder how it will play out with oh-so-popular French woman for that coveted position in the IMF vacancies, and whether the competition has an edge not from her being French, but being a French woman.

 

SOCIALHGH

5:37 PM ET

June 12, 2011

How is it in the US ?

I am french and I find the "french way" perfectly normal and I am curious to know more about the way the citizens see the romantic life of their leaders.
I think that in USA, when competitors politicians can not beat the ones they are racing against, they will do everything they can to expose their rival's private life and sexual affairs to the public and I personally think that you cannot say to everyone that you are the country of liberty if at the same time, you spy on your leader's private lifes... Or am I wrong ?
I think that everyone (including public figures) should be able to do anything they want in their lifes as long as they produce a good job and that their performances are not slowed down by whatever activity they may enjoy while in the private. If they like to get slapped when making love or to buy HGH online they should be allowed to live their life the way they want

 

HAMMURABI2500

8:43 AM ET

June 13, 2011

I think we are confusing things here.

I believe that we are talking about two different things here. One thing is consensual seduction. Another one is sexual harrassment. Perhaps it is normal in France that a man touches a woman derrier without being invited by her. If a man does that to me, a slap will land on his face.
Having said that, I don't find anything sensual in an old man chasing a younger worker around hotel corridors. The girl did not find it sensual either, based on her reaction when she asked for the help from her employers.I think it is pretty pathetic; typical of old guys trying to force their masculinity to prove what? That they are still machos? Disgusting, really.
Another thing is consensual sex. I could not careless for a polititians sex life. As long as he does his job well, nobody is perfect.
I think what bothers Americans, more than the sex, is the idea that politicians might abuse their power to hide their sex encounters - like the John Edwards case - or tax payers funds to support their mistresses. Or when minors are involved. As you might know, Bill Clinton's carrier and persona is up and well, despite the Monica scandal. That is what Americans are bothered with I believe.

 

DAILYHUGHES

10:31 AM ET

June 13, 2011

I have felt this was a setup

I have felt this was a setup from the start. I spoke with a friend of mine who is highly in the know, extremely smart, and a principal at one of the most profitable companies in the world. Since he travels 6 days a week around the globe I asked him what he thought.

He sounded like he was spoon fed every propaganda piece at every stop on his latest trip. mentioning the IMF leaders LONG history of abuse, that we ALL knew about right???

Guys like this get away with everything until those who are not getting their way put the hammer down. We are told what we need to hear and should believe, and that has nothing to do with the French wanting their leaders to have their sex lives exposed.

 

HOMOSAPIENS

8:43 AM ET

June 13, 2011

Dominique Strauss-Kahn great mistake

Rape and forcible sexual assault are not part of the French culture - at least I hope not. That asise, DKS's threshhold great mistake was to defy the rule we all know: When in Rome, do as the Romans.

 

IRALARRY

3:21 PM ET

June 13, 2011

How it is in the US

This county is far more conservative than most people would imagine. This thing with congressman Anthony Weiner is, depending on your perspective as much about the salacious details-a press favorite, unfortunately, as it is about a man who is so out of touch with the reality of the information age, the internet and the presses penchant for his crap as it is, for me at least, about how a man can deny and lie to an invited press corp about his absolutely asinine behavior by allowing it to become public. Sometimes I think these are test cases to see how much more these pols can push the public into accepting this sort of thing. Everyone knew about Kennedy and Marilyn Monroe. Few cared or quibbled about it. Then Bill Clinton came along and he redefined what sex is. Newt Gingrich, John Edwards, Larry Spitzer, Mark Sanford, John Ensign and on and on. Look, even Thomas Jefferson had babies from slaves! This country is not new to liberal sexual proclivities of its politicians. As a self defined christian nation, a thought I get at sick just mentioning, those with this mindset find sex to be-outwardly-a private matter and for procreation. I could care less if they fondle blow up dolls in their spare time! Just don;t let me know, because, as a guy, I already do know and if found out, don't deny and lie about it.

 

ROCCIA7

3:43 PM ET

June 14, 2011

The Tradition of Seduction

Ah! The Discreet Charm of the Bourgeoisie. So quaint. So 19th century. Luis Bunuel closed the book on it long ago. Why not wax nostalgic for le droit du seigneur and give up any pretense of equal rights and justice?

 

JAUME

5:19 PM ET

June 16, 2011

I disagree

"The concept of sexual sin and forgiveness means little in French politics"

That's true, but it doesn't make virility and seduction desirable or a necessity, as you try to demonstrate with cherry picked examples. Even today, many in France see De Gaulle as the reference in French politics, and he was the opposite of a womanizer: he actually remained faithful to his spouse until the end. And his successor to the presidency, Georges Pompidou, was just the same kind of man.

On the contrary, every study or poll I've seen that's been done on this topic shows that French people don't really mind if their leaders are womanizers and cheaters, except that other things (competence, commitment, etc.) being equal, they'd rather vote for the faithful guy.

The French indeed tolerate their politicians' sexual dalliances -- but no, they definitely don't demand them.

 

ROSELIA264

3:07 AM ET

July 9, 2011

Libert, galit, Virilit

The French don't just tolerate their politicians' sexual dalliances -- they demand them. "The concept of sexual sin and forgiveness means little in French politics" That's true, but it doesn't make virility and seduction desirable or a necessity, as you try to demonstrate with cherry picked examples. Even today, many in France see De Gaulle as the reference in French politics, and he was the opposite of a womanizer: he actually remained faithful to his spouse until the end. And his su quitting smoking I believe that we are talking about two different things here. One thing is consensual seduction. Another one is sexual harrassment. Perhaps it is normal in France that a man touches a woman derrier without being invited by her. If a man does that to me, a slap will land on his face. Having said that, I don't find anything sensual in an old man chasing a younger worker around hotel corridors. The.