The Feminine Realpolitik

Breaking down the walls of Micah Zenko's "City of Men."

BY HEATHER HURLBURT | JULY 18, 2011

The think-tank world -- the double-X chromosome part of it, anyway -- is buzzing with Micah Zenko's July 14 piece in Foreign Policy examining statistics and anecdotes that prove, once again, the woeful underrepresentation of women in the U.S. national security policymaking establishment.

Zenko offers two causes -- women's "preference" for "soft" policy issues and women's greater struggles with the balance between work and family. However, these factors are really manifestations of his third answer: Too many powerful men tend to create work environments that privilege men over women. This is an example of that ingrained, deeply human preference for the familiar that we softly refer to as … sexism.

Zenko does a great job of pulling together the evidence, but then asks a question he doesn't answer: What are we losing as a result? This question is gentler, and it has two answers. First, we face a straightforward loss in the "war for talent." With American women now a majority of college graduates, receiving an ever-larger proportion of postgraduate degrees, and outperforming men academically, we're missing brainpower if they don't form a significant part of our national security infrastructure. Lest you think this is just female chauvinism, check out what the commander of the Army's Special Warfare Center and School had to say about the first class of female special operations soldiers: "They are in Afghanistan right now and the reviews are off the charts. They're doing great."

It should be mentioned, too, that the situation is not much better for blacks, Latinos, Asian/Pacific Islanders, and Muslims -- to say nothing of gays and lesbians who are out of the closet. The doors of the establishment opened to the Irish, the Jews, the middle class and (some) women in the 1960s and 1970s, and then got stuck halfway.

Second, we bump up against the essentialist argument that women have been arguing among ourselves since the 1970s. How exactly does women's participation matter? Anne-Marie Slaughter, who served until recently as director of the State Department's Policy Planning staff, has written that our increasingly networked, horizontal world may privilege the brains and societal training that women -- who are prepared to be relationship-builders and nurturers -- receive.

Secretary of State Madeleine Albright acknowledged that she built a special circle of relationships with other women leaders who, she used to say, "knew we would return each other's phone calls." Secretary of State Hillary Clinton hasn't shied away from saying that her gender makes her more determined to speak out about war-time atrocities committed against women in Congo and more focused on how women's equality and opportunity can lift up entire societies economically and politically.

It stands to reason that a national security establishment that speaks to women as well as men in the United States and around the world is a necessity, not an option.

As the female head of a nonprofit with "National Security" in its title, I see a flood of talented young women as interns, job-seekers, and colleagues. No one has told them they're not supposed to like "hard security." They want to work on everything and climb the ladder as much as the men do. In fact, their confidence and assertiveness tends to unnerve my older male colleagues. The real question is, where do they go between the time they pour into the intern ranks at 22 and the time they are my peers and my mentors' peers?

As Zenko notes, many more women find themselves in "soft power" policy areas. Does this happen because of something essentially feminine? No. About once every five years, starting in college, someone has told me that women "don't like" hard security. Eventually, many women take the hint: If moving from defense to development buys you a more congenial workplace and bosses who seem to value you more, then it's no wonder that the ranks of women in "hard security" dwindles along the way.

It's worth noting the exceptions that prove the rule. High-profile women in national security tend to attract fantastic, and fantastically loyal, female staff. Where are the highest concentrations of women in national security right now? Around Clinton at the State Department and around Undersecretary of Defense for Policy Michèle Flournoy at the Pentagon.

It's easy to write, as Zenko does, that women suffer more from family balance pressures. He's not wrong, but again, that's not so much because women want to be doing more housework and less policy work: Household tasks are still not distributed evenly between the genders; neither are expectations. This doesn't just affect women. An assistant secretary of defense I know has a stay-at-home husband; the comments they still get, in liberal Washington in the 21st century, are shocking.

Can women and men change this without out-and-out gender warfare? I'll suggest three routes. One is to be willing to name it. Most of us Generation Xers and boomers are so conscious of how much better things have gotten in our lifetimes that we're reluctant to complain. My mom couldn't join the Foreign Service because women officers had to be single. When I was in college, my only female role model was U.S. Ambassador to the United Nations Jeane Kirkpatrick. We're also worried that complaining brands us as whiners or gender warriors. But perhaps, with Sarah Palin and Michele Bachmann on our right flank and Clinton and Albright on our left, we ought to get over that.

Second, we must be honest that the core problem is that many men still turn first to other men -- in hiring, but also in picking conference speakers, media spokespeople, and handing out assignments. If you don't want to call it sexism, it is at least a bias toward comfort with what's familiar. That habit is going to get us all in trouble in a globalizing, unfamiliar world, and it deserves to be challenged.

Last, one of the corollaries of the points above is that our best female national security professionals tend to be a little less visible than their male counterparts. It's the job of everyone who pays lip service to the problem to change that. I can rattle off the names of two dozen kick-ass think-tank women in their 30s and 40s: Among them, they've taught hard power at Stanford University, National Defense University, and West Point; advised Rudy Giuliani, John McCain, Barack Obama, and both Clintons; faced down dictators; led development of the Pentagon's green-energy policy; and founded think tanks before age 30.

They are liberals and conservatives, military and civilian, from old families and first-generation immigrants, from elite colleges and hardscrabble backgrounds. And that's not counting the female war correspondents, who are made of steel, or the women veterans who've taught me invaluable lessons about courage, sacrifice, and grace under pressure. One of the best things about think-tank life is having these women as peers, mentors, rivals, and friends. If you're in the business and can't name a dozen women you'd put on TV, in charge of funding decisions, or at the negotiating table for the United States, I'd be happy to introduce you.

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Heather Hurlburt is the executive director of the National Security Network.

KCDAVIS

9:16 PM ET

July 18, 2011

I couldn't agree more.

I am a woman with a postgraduate degree in International Security and I am finding it incredibly hard to break into the world of think tanks.

http://www.linkedin.com/in/kellycdavis

 

USAMA2

5:55 AM ET

July 19, 2011

Because KCDavis finds it

Because KCDavis finds it "hard", she should be given help?

Perhaps she hasn't shown sufficient networking skills to enter into the political echalons that nurture think tanks.

Perhaps she has a fanciful myopic vision of having the power to determine the affairs of the world simply because of her 'qualifications'.

What is "hard"?

 

PECHORIN

11:31 PM ET

July 18, 2011

RE: House Husbands

Interesting article, I very much enjoyed reading it. Clinton's been an excellent Secretary of State, we need more women like her in public service.

Speaking as young man with some small claim to intelligence and education, I can say that I expect that this gender gap will change sooner rather than later. The author is right to point to the demographics of colleges and graduate programs. The policymakers of the future, men and women, are conditioned by intellectual environments with a more even gender balance. Current grad students and twenty-somethings have a wealth of experience in taking women seriously, since as often as not it has been women who were their professors or intellectual peers. When I reflect on my undergrad experience it's probably accurate to say that most of the people I considered as serious competition were female. I don't think that there's any way that this generational shift won't alter the professional environment in favor of women; the young men I respect are uniformly interested in working with the most qualified and capable people, and used to environments where many of the best people were women.

The other thread that drew my interest was the comment about attitudes encountered by a stay at home husband. That's something I don't expect to change. Frankly speaking, I don't think I could ever accept a marital situation like that and I think I'd think less of a friend who did. I'm not saying women should be in a professionally subordinate marital role. The most successful marriages and relationships I see in my age group are those where the partners are professionally and educationally comparable, and they go through a difficult process of maintaining an equilibrium of ambitions. It puts strain on relationships, but I can't see it going any other way-- the ambition and pride of capable young men is such as precludes any kind of subordinate relationship behavior. "Wife and mother" is a position that held a certain kind of circumscribed respect under the pre-feminist gender regime; I can't imagine a similar role being found for men in a more gender-neutral post-feminist world.

 

BEINGTHERE

2:10 PM ET

July 19, 2011

Women will get the jobs but may need to rethink life goals

Agree with Pechorn, but not all women dream of marriage and children. Marriage and travel are always a challenge, but it can be done. It's harder with kids. Times are changing, especially with the wars and women in the military. Sometimes men are left back home.

Strides forward in FP jobs will come sooner than later because young, progressive-thinking men, as well as women, are advancing in the job world. Aging power men are often turf-huggers, and they really can't be blamed for that, especially in a sour economy. However, most of their prejudices against women in any position of authority is learned. These men are disappearing, though maybe not quickly enough for young female job-seekers.

When women pursue the qualifications for FP positions, knowing about the stresses, travel and backlash that often accompany, they will be credentialed for these positions and equal to male counterparts of comparable experience. They eventually will be hired by these younger men - and women - who support and appreciate diversity - gender and otherwise.

 

GRANT

4:14 AM ET

July 19, 2011

Here's another issue created

Here's another issue created by the lack of women in think tanks is that we have fewer people to introduce whatever the next brilliant theory is. For all academics and policy a diverse environment with many different minds is a necessity, you don't get quality work from an orthodox mentality*.

*With no intention of suggesting anything about religions which use the word 'Orthodox'.

 

USAMA2

5:56 AM ET

July 19, 2011

BTW, feminism is arguably an

BTW, feminism is arguably an unmatched unchallenged ideology which is serving to empower women OVER men in ways that men never had over women.

 

GURINGO

7:09 AM ET

July 19, 2011

No, it does NOT stand to reason..

quote -"It stands to reason that a national security establishment that speaks to women as well as men in the United States and around the world is a necessity, not an option."

Ms. Hurlburt - that national security has to pander to either sexes, let alone to foreigners, just begs the question; what about the LGBT community world-wide? Shouldn't they be included in the kumbaya dialogue you deem a necessity?

 

GRANT

2:08 PM ET

July 19, 2011

Amazing. Despite the fact

Amazing. Despite the fact that women are actually doing better in our colleges than men and the fact that women make up half of the country any efforts to include them in think tanks is a 'kumbaya dialogue'. Are stay-at-home dads another example of this?

 

GURINGO

4:40 PM ET

July 19, 2011

Amazing indeed...

I'm all for 'live and let live' -I wouldn't give a flying focula were my neighbors to decide on switching roles/schedules/wardrobe/etc.

By the same token, I would put them out of their misery were they to assail me with any kumbaya pissology...

Why is it you can't see leftard fascists for what they are?

 

GRANT

10:13 PM ET

July 19, 2011

Maybe because you don't

Maybe because you don't appear to understand what fascism is. Let me enlighten you. Fascism is a right-wing ideology that focuses heavily on nationalism, racism, militarism, and authoritarian governments. It seems to find great support in rural areas and among social elites. In other words, fascism has nothing to do with left-wing groups. It's true that the name Nazi comes from 'national socialist' but I think you'll find with a mere glance that Nazi politics after the 1920s had nothing to do with the left.

 

GURINGO

6:07 PM ET

July 20, 2011

..left-wing, right wing, I have no wings.

Grant, fascism/authoritarianism comes in both flavors, you make as much sense as a sports fan extolling his/her team of choice.

And Feminism is no less repugnant than 'Masculinism' per se; all ideologies, social constructs et al, are temporal, however they constitute an upgrade over their predecessor, they will all come to fester, it's just that we're coming around to seeing their expiry date, and as such, the upheavals and calamities for change to occur will no longer be necessary.

 

SGK12

9:32 AM ET

July 19, 2011

Is this really a critical issue?

It's obviously a slow week at FP. They're having trouble finding timely areas of discussion. Since women obviously can't make it on their own, let's make sure they get some special assistance!

 

DITIRMIND

10:54 AM ET

July 19, 2011

Yes, this issue does matter

As a PhD student in International Relations at a top twenty university, I can assure the several incredulous commenters that gender imbalance in the security policy making field is problematic. Security policy is often influenced far more by the old, discredited systemic theories of old white men. Some of the best security scholars in academia today are women - Brett Ashley Leeds, Virginia Page Fortna, and Barbara Walter (no - not the host of the View) all come directly to mind. Moreover, these security scholars focus on the most pressing issues in security studies today - civil wars, intervention, war cessation, etc.

The disconnect between the policy world and the academic world, which is fueled by an "old boys club" that privileges stale, tired world-views over dynamic, new ways of thinking about security, is in large part entrenched precisely because the paucity of women in the security policy space amounts to a tacit assessment that men are somehow better at security.

The vast majority of my best students are women. Yet, these women have much more difficulty even getting the high-level internships required to break into the security policy world. In the end, the best minds are not getting the opportunity to contribute meaningfully to the policy debate.

For USAMA2 and SGK12, I'd say two things:
1) Never once in this article did the author suggest that women should receive special assistance. Instead, she draws attention to a disparity in the security policy profession, explains why this inequality is a problem, and then states that in order to fix this problem, we need to acknowledge its existence and its cause. No talk of firing all the men in order to hire more women.

2) To say that feminism is an unchallenged theory that tries to subjugate men is so ridiculous and misinformed, it would be laughable if attitudes such as yours were not so widely held and so destructive. First, it is difficult to assign a blanket definition of feminism, since there are many different feminist groups with slightly different goals. But, what united feminists is a belief that women are not inferior to men (notice, the belief is not that women are superior to men), and that centuries of a patriarchal culture has created a society in which women are devalued and face much more limited choices in how to live their lives than men do (central to feminism theory is the concept of false choice, in which women in liberal democracies might have statutory rights equal to men's, but that social pressures make it impossible for women to actually have the same degree of freedom of choice as men do).

 

GURINGO

6:58 PM ET

July 20, 2011

well put... but...

Feminism whitewashes misandry and even misogyny - just look up Alice Walker's daughter and what she has to say about her mother.

Also note how feminists are that much likely to attack Israel than to criticize the Muslim cultures/nations over their abysmal subjugation of women -again, see Alice Walker.

And the concept of 'false choice' is no less applicable to men than to women, thus, by appropriating the concept, feminists are no better than those they criticize.

OTOH, I greatly admire Ayaan Hirsi Ali, and I have no qualms with seeing the best candidates attain the best positions -regardless of their sex, sexual preference, color, creed, etc, nonetheless, F*CK affirmative action in this and in any other field, you want to talk about discredited liberadical theories for a change?

 

GURINGO

7:14 PM ET

July 20, 2011

here ya go...

http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2011/07/02/barbara-kay-alice-walker-and-gaza-a-hypocrite-on-an-hypocritical-mission/

 

POLITICALANIMAL

3:36 PM ET

August 9, 2011

But how do you solve it?

I suspect the same problem exists in every Western country ro a greater or lesser extent. Thwe question is how do you solve it? There is no Head of HR you can call in to face the music. Also it is clearly not just a matter of access but of choices freely made to specialise in other area. However I am happy to sing FP's praises for making this a big issue for us all to ponder.

 

RUDDERMANN

5:01 PM ET

August 16, 2011

Women and Foreign Policy Part II

Several women disagreed strongly that ladies avoid researching or focusing on "hard power" methods to U.S. foreign policy. On the related note, several also explained the issue is less about hard power and much more concerning the predominant Washington-centric focus. As you colleague noted, Women may begin to see the other side´s perspective, and ladies see a lesser zero-sum game.

Lots of men and ladies wrote to share the burn the fat review of women's under-representation in their own individual think tank, government agency, or military services was either much worse or a lot better than the information during my piece found. For instance, I had been told in regards to a "win" inside an intelligence community agency to get use of a lactation room, as opposed to the previously assigned broom closet.