'I Will Be Killed Soon'

After 10 years of U.S. presence in Afghanistan, a family that has struggled to survive through decades of foreign invaders prepares for the worst blow yet.

BY ANNA BADKHEN | SEPTEMBER 9, 2011

This week, at home in Philadelphia, I received a call from an Afghan friend. I'll call him B.

"Anna jan," he said. "I will be killed soon."

The first time B.'s family threw in its lot with foreign invaders was right after B. was born, more than 30 years ago. His father, at the time a willowy young army lieutenant, became an intelligence officer with the Soviet-backed Communist regime. A decade of lavish receptions at the Soviet military headquarters at Bagram Airfield -- years later, the old man reminisced fondly about his late-night vodka bacchanals with air force commander Alexander Rutskoi, who would become Russia's only vice president and then would lead the failed uprising to unseat Boris Yeltsin -- ended abruptly when the Kremlin pulled out its troops in 1989. Fearing that the anti-Soviet mujaheddin would kill him for working with the Communists, B.'s father, his wife, and his children, including B., fled to a life of relative stagnation and anonymity in Mazar-e-Sharif, in Afghanistan's north.

After the United States invaded Afghanistan in 2001 (and took over Bagram Airfield, turning it into the largest American military base in the country), B.'s family once again aligned itself with the latest centurions. B.'s oldest sister served a term at the provincial jirga; one of his younger brothers got a job with an American NGO teaching Afghans how to conduct Western-style elections. Before he retired, B.'s father briefly worked at a U.S.-based relief agency that promotes women's rights. In 2003, B. went to work as a driver for the Mazar-e-Sharif office of the U.N. Assistant Mission in Afghanistan, or UNAMA, which supervises all U.N. relief and reconstruction activities in the country.

B. was not in the office on April 1, when a Friday mob, enraged by reports that Pastor Terry Jones set fire to the Koran in Florida, stormed the U.N. compound and killed 12 of his co-workers; he was out driving a Western staffer around Mazar-e-Sharif. But the next day, on an unpaved street near his house, B. spotted a stranger he thought suspicious and followed him. According to UNAMA investigators, that man was the mastermind of the U.N. massacre, a Talib who had come to Mazar-e-Sharif several weeks earlier specifically to carry out a terrorist attack. Video footage of demonstrators rushing the U.N. compound shows him carrying a Kalashnikov assault rifle, exhorting the crowd to attack foreigners. B. says the man was talking nervously on his cell phone, explaining that he was in danger, asking someone when and how he could be helped escape from the city. My friend called the police and helped them arrest the man.

The death threats began soon after. First the phone calls and cell phone text messages ("We will kill you," "We will find you anywhere in Afghanistan," "We will gouge out your eyes"). Later, someone tossed offal studded with sewing needles over the wall of B.'s family compound, presumably to kill or maim the German shepherd that guards the house. The brothers -- B. lives with seven of them; three, including B., have wives and children -- took to patrolling the house at night in shifts. B. oscillates between wanting to stay in Mazar-e-Sharif, where he lives in relative prosperity but in constant danger, and to flee with his pregnant wife and three children, and thousands of other Afghans, to the refugee limbo and relative safety of Tajikistan. UNAMA, which is supposedly in Afghanistan to help Afghans, and for which B. has risked his life, has refused to help him resettle abroad.

"What do you want me to do? I have 2,000 people like him," B.'s boss in Kabul told me over the phone. For some reason, she kept calling him Abdul, which is not my friend's name. To this woman, he was a "local national," an expendable, nameless stick figure. The writer Paul Theroux calls people like her "agents of virtue."

ROMEO GACAD/AFP/Getty Images

 SUBJECTS: AFGHANISTAN
 

Anna Badkhen is the author of Peace Meals and Waiting for the Taliban. She is writing a book about timelessness. Her reporting from Afghanistan is made possible by a grant from the Pulitzer Center on Crisis Reporting.

XTIANGODLOKI

9:15 AM ET

September 10, 2011

So is B. a traitor?

B is an ally of the US forces, but a traitor to many local people who also have to have families fighting and dying against the occupying army.

This is why wars are bad. The common people are always the losers regardless of the side.

 

HURRICANEWARNING

5:33 PM ET

September 10, 2011

"occupying army"...I don't

"occupying army"...I don't think so. You can't really "occupy" a country militarily if you don't control it, nor seek to control it, only make it better.

 

BING520

1:50 PM ET

September 25, 2011

control

Of course we are seeking control of the country. We are telling people whom we support in their country, and who should run the governments in their country. We are killing the people we don't like. We want the country to be the way we can accept.

Of course we are occupation force in reality and in essence, but we can't use that term because we know how bad it is.

Let's take Japan for example. Only several years ago, the US military started to hand over to the Japanese police the soldiers who violated Japanese law. US military personel were once untouchables in Japan. Te treaty we asked Japan to sign grants such a privilege. Local Japanese folks started mass demonstrate again US military base due to several horrible crimes committed by the soldiers. DoD changed its policy.

I don't call US military presence in Japan an occupation force because commanders can't do anything without first consulting with Japanese government. The same rule is applied to US force in South Korea. ( I think any movement of US troop in South Krea requires approval from South Korean high command.) The same can't be said of Afghanistan.

 

KEITH MCDONALD

1:36 PM ET

September 10, 2011

This happens to countless

This happens to countless people in occupied countries, no matter who occupies and who is occupied. There will always be citizens who do not want outside interference in the affairs of their country. Do these people have the same rights as the ones who welcome and join the occupiers? I believe so. Do they have a right to threaten, intimidate and even murder the citizens who help the occupiers? Absolutely not. There should be a civilized discourse. But it will be hard to overcome centuries of violent behavior, especially since it has been rewarded in the past. Even in our country, abortion clinics in Atlanta come under fire from citizens who disagree with their purpose. We must reward that behavior either.

 

HURRICANEWARNING

5:44 PM ET

September 10, 2011

you are rationalizing the

you are rationalizing the actions of the Taliban. a group of people who quite literally are about as intelligent as monkeys, and as ruthless as the worst tyrants from the middle ages. We are talking about illiterate, uneducated, religiously indoctrinated, violent, supremely misguided people...they are not valiantly fighting against "occupiers", they are trying to get THEIR power back. nothing else. If this were Vietnam, I would agree with you, but quite frankly you are being WAAAY to forgiving and liberal for the current situation in Afghanistan. Nothing good will come from striking deals with, accommodating, or sympathizing with the Taliban. These people burn the faces of girls who try to learn, and publicly torture and execute those who don't follow the most conservative of laws. If their are monsters, the Taliban as a group must surely be counted among them. What is happening in Afghanistan is not our fault, it was happening before we got there, and it's still happening now (look up the history). We are just a new faction in an age old war between what essentially constitutes progressiveness v.s. complete religious Idiocy. What we DO provide the taliban with however, is a convenient scapegoat to point the finger at, trying to pull the wool over the eyes of people like you.

 

MA45

10:09 PM ET

September 11, 2011

Please look up the history

"What is happening in Afghanistan is not our fault, it was happening before we got there, and it's still happening now (look up the history)." If you look to the past 60 years of history of Afghanistan, you will realize how much part the US plays in making the situation worse. Particularly, look up how the Soviet Union and the US used Afghanistan as yet another instrument during the Cold War. I am not saying that Afghanistan was a perfect place before these two countries decided to interfere in its affairs, but it was relatively better than the Afghanistan of today in so many ways.

 

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2:36 PM ET

September 11, 2011

...I don't

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KUNINO

11:45 PM ET

September 11, 2011

BADKHEN has a bet each way

To protect the subject of her message, she names him as B. To make clear who he is, she gives enormous detail of his family history. The effect is like what we see in old western movies on TV: highwaymen tie a bandanna round the lower havesf of their heads and instantly become recognizable. Nobody can be expected to consider their horse, their saddle, their clothing and their sidearms as ID tools. This tells us too many directors of those movies were city folk.

 

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10:40 AM ET

October 5, 2011

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YARINSIZ

1:29 PM ET

October 6, 2011

What is happening in

What is happening in Afghanistan is not our fault, it was happening before we got there, and it's still happening now (look up the history)." If you look to the past 60 years of history of Afghanistan, you will realize how much part the US plays in making the situation worse. seslichat Particularly, look up how the Soviet Union and the US used Afghanistan as yet another instrument during the Cold War.