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Countries That Love Their Moms More Than America Does

A global guilt trip in honor of Mother's Day.

Save the Children has released its annual State of the World's Mothers report and once again it's not a particularly impressive showing for the world's wealthiest country. The United States comes in 25th place, just behind the dictatorship of Belarus, thanks to alarming rates of pregnancy-related deaths and the low number of children enrolled in preschools.

Here's a look at how moms in some of the top 24 live.

NORWAY

Save the Children ranking: 1

Norway -- a perennial chart-topper on global well-being lists -- is extraordinarily generous to new parents. After the birth of a child, both parents are entitled to two weeks of paid leave. After that, they have the option of either another 46 weeks off at full pay or 56 weeks at 80 percent of normal wages -- to be divided between the parents. To make sure that dad pitches in, the government requires that at least 10 of the weeks be taken by the father. Before the law was passed, only 3 percent of Norwegian fathers took any paternity leave. Now, 90 percent take at least 12 weeks, and it's not unusual for even government ministers to take several months off to help during a child's first year.

The government even gives a special grant to families who choose to have one parent stay home with a child until age two. Should they choose to go back to work, a 37.5-hour workweek and five weeks of guaranteed vacation take a bit of the pressure out of being a working mom. Norway's fertility rates have diminished somewhat in recent years but are still among the highest in Europe.

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ICELAND

Save the Children ranking: 2

The second-best country for mothers is similarly generous when it comes to maternity leave. Both parents have the right to three months of paid leave after the birth or adoption of a child, plus an additional three months to be divided between the parents. Unemployed parents can qualify for special welfare payments as well. Icelandic mothers are also entitled to free prenatal care, including 10 doctor's visits, ultrasounds, care from midwives or doctors, and home visits from nurses after the birth. The government also provides quarterly child benefits based on family size.

Because of these policies, Iceland has pulled off the feat of having both the highest rate of women's participation in the workforce -- 82.6 percent -- and one of Europe's highest fertility rates. The World Economic Forum has consistently ranked Iceland as the world's top country for gender equality. Under Prime Minister Johanna Sigurdardottir, half the country's legislature and four of its 10 cabinet members are women.

The only downside to being a mom in Iceland? You have to choose your child's name from a government-approved list. Hope you like Haldor and Kaja.

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NEW ZEALAND

Save the children ranking: 4

Kiwi moms are entitled to free publicly funded maternity services or can opt to pay for private care. The maternity leave wouldn't impress a Norwegian mother, but is still pretty generous: 14 weeks of paid leave for mothers, plus a protected 52-weeks of unpaid leave. Spouses and partners are entitled to 42 days of leave.

One unique feature of motherhood in New Zealand is the Royal New Zealand Plunket Society, a private -- though largely government-funded -- organization that has provided free nursing and instructional services to new mothers since 1907. The "Plunket nurse" has been an icon of Kiwi society for over a century.

One black mark on the country's record is the health of Maori mothers, who suffer far higher rates of maternal death and stillbirths than mothers of European descent.

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FRANCE

Save the children ranking: 14

Readers in the United States may be eagerly devouring books on how the French raise their children or why French women don't get fat, but more interesting may be how France treats its mothers. French women are entitled to 16 weeks of total paid maternity leave, beginning six weeks before the expected birth. After that, parents have the option of three years of protected unpaid leave. Day care is subsidized, and families with young children are entitled to special government benefits. Interestingly, the French system encourages large families by increasing benefits substantially with the birth of a third child.

France's health-care system -- rated best in the world by the World Health Organization -- is also extremely generous for new mothers, going beyond free doctor's visits to cover home visits from registered nurses. (Despite what Michael Moore might tell you, these nurses generally won't do your laundry.) The level of postnatal care the French state provides can also sometimes get surprisingly intimate.

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HUNGARY

Save the children ranking: 22

It's not only rich countries that put the United States to shame when it comes to caring for mothers. Hungary, which is one of the poorest EU countries and has been devastated by the European financial crisis, has lower rates of both maternal and infant mortality than America, according to Save the Children's 2012 report. (It boasts the lowest maternal mortality rate in Central and Eastern Europe.) Prenatal care is provided free, though it's substantially better if you pay for it.

In a bid to boost the country's plummeting birth rates, the government recently extended unpaid maternity leave to three years, on top of 24 weeks of paid leave. As part of the same maternity push, the government last year even considered giving extra votes in elections to women with children.

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Where in the World Is Same-Sex Marriage Legal?

It's not just those liberal Northern Europeans who have embraced homosexual unions.

The debate over gay marriage has shot up to the top of the U.S. political agenda in recent days, with Vice President Joe Biden and Education Secretary Arne Duncan expressing support for same-sex marriage, North Carolina overwhelmingly passing an amendment banning same-sex marriage, and a same-sex civil unions bill failing in Colorado.

On Wednesday, President Barack Obama took his first definitive stand on the question, telling ABC News that "for me personally it is important for me to go ahead and affirm that I think same-sex couples should be able to get married." Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney, for his part, reiterated his opposition to "marriage between people of the same gender." (As for the voters, the American public is roughly split on the topic, though support for gay marriage has increased significantly over the past 10 years).

In his interview, Obama added that he still supports the idea of states deciding the issue on their own, despite his personal views. But if same-sex marriage were to become legal in the United States, what club of countries would it be joining? Let's take a tour of the 10 places in the world where same-sex marriage has been legalized -- all in roughly the last decade.

Country: The Netherlands

Year legalized: 2000

How it happened: The Netherlands became the first country to legalize same-sex marriage when the Dutch parliament passed the most sweeping gay-rights legislation in the world at the time, overcoming opposition from the Christian Democratic Party and other right-wing parties to homosexual couples adopting children. Lawmakers were operating in a receptive climate, however; a poll at the time showed that 62 percent of Dutch people had no objection to gay marriages. More than 2,400 same-sex couples married in the Netherlands within nine months of the law's passage, with the mayor of Amsterdam officiating at the first ceremonies.

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Country: Belgium

Year legalized: 2003

How it happened: Belgium's law enjoyed support from both the Flemish-speaking North and the French-speaking South, and afforded homosexual couples the same tax and inheritance rights as heterosexual couples. But the Belgian parliament did not grant gay and lesbian couples the right to adopt children until 2006. The law "remains blatantly hypocritical in one respect: a single person can adopt a child, but not a homosexual couple," a Socialist lawmaker complained in 2003.

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Country: Spain

Year legalized: 2005

How it happened: In the face of vocal opposition from Catholic officials, the Spanish parliament narrowly passed a bill legalizing same-sex marriage by adding just one line to existing law: "Marriage will have the same requirements and results when the two people entering into the contract are of the same sex or of different sexes." Gay-marriage advocates hailed the language, arguing that it did away with legal distinctions between same-sex and heterosexual unions, while the legislation in the Netherlands and Belgium established a separate category of rights for same-sex couples.

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Country: Canada

Year legalized: 2005

How it happened: Canada legalized same-sex marriage around the same time that Spain did, and with similar legislation. The parliamentary action came after a string of court cases had already made same-sex marriage legal in nine of the country's 13 provinces and territories. Conservative leader Stephen Harper vowed to revive the gay-marriage debate if he was elected prime minister. But Harper has held that very position since 2006 and the law still stands -- despite attempts to overturn it. 

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Country: South Africa

Year legalized: 2006

How it happened: South Africa isn't just the first and only African country to legalize same-sex marriage -- it also managed this on a continent where homosexuality is frequently condemned and often illegal. The law came a year after the country's highest court ruled that South Africa's post-apartheid constitution, which bans discrimination based on sexual orientation, guarantees the right of gays and lesbians to marry. Some gay-rights advocates, however, criticized South Africa's legislation for permitting clergy and civil marriage officers to refuse to conduct same-sex marriage ceremonies for reasons of conscience.

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Country: Norway

Year legalized: 2008

How it happened: Norway's law gave gay couples the same rights as heterosexual couples to marry, adopt children, and undergo artificial insemination. The legislation granted clergy the right but not the legal obligation to perform same-sex wedding ceremonies -- an important distinction, since the Lutheran Church of Norway (which at the time counted roughly 85 percent of Norwegians as members) was divided on gay marriage.  

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Country: Sweden

Year legalized: 2009

How it happened: Sweden -- one of the first countries to give gay couples legal "partnership" rights in the mid-1990s -- legalized same-sex marriage by a landslide parliamentary vote of 226 to 22 (a whopping 70 percent of Swedes polled before the passage of the new law supported gay marriage). Several months after the approval of the bill, the Lutheran Church of Sweden voted to allow gay weddings. Priests had a right to refuse to perform these ceremonies, but if they did the church would find another member of the clergy to officiate.

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Country: Portugal

Year legalized: 2010

How it happened: When Portugal's Socialist government passed a bill allowing same-sex marriage, the country's conservative President Aníbal Cavaco Silva was less than thrilled. "I feel I should not contribute to a pointless extension of this debate," he explained in reluctantly ratifying the measure. But Pope Benedict XVI was even harsher when he visited Portugal only days before Cavaco Silva signed the bill into law -- calling for the protection of "the indissoluble marriage between a man and a woman."

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Country: Iceland

Year legalized: 2010

How it happened: It seemed fitting when Iceland -- the only country in the world with an openly gay head of state -- passed a law (by a vote of 49 to zero, no less) permitting same-sex marriage. Shortly after the law came into effect, Iceland's prime minister, Johanna Sigurdardottir (pictured above), married her longtime partner, Jonina Leosdottir.

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Country: Argentina

Year legalized: 2010

How it happened: When Argentina became the first Latin American country to legalize same-sex marriage, it faced fierce opposition from the Roman Catholic Church. But the move also inspired enthusiastic support. In Mexico City -- the first jurisdiction in the region to legalize gay marriages -- the tourism board offered an all-expenses-paid vacation to the first Argentine gay couple to get married. "In a few years, this debate will be absolutely anachronistic," Argentine President Cristina Fernández de Kirchner declared when signing the new law.

Judging by the debate this week, we're not there yet.

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